Work is busy yet boring today (trainings), so good a time for this as any. Also I’m in a very happily fuck-it mood.
FDS used to be about strength, wisdom, self respect and dignity. Half the people here seem severely lacking on those fronts.
If that’s how you feel you need to interact around men, by all means protect your energy and your peace and go WGTOW. Continuing to engage as you are is clearly rotting your souls, and perpetuating a culture which does not help other women.
I’m actually in a relationship with a man I’m happy with. FDS worked. Ta frickin da.
I find him sexually attractive, he treats me amazing in bed, he pays for everything, he is loyal to me. He is hardworking, empathetic, dependable, intelligent, generous, and kind. He anticipates my needs. He treats all the women in his life with respect. He gives back to his community. He agrees with FDS, though he doesn’t know it exists, but I see the advice he gives his daughter and other women in his life. I don’t cook for him, or clean for him, or move my schedule around for him, or communicate for him. I pretty much don’t do anything for him. Meanwhile he comes and does man shit around my house of his own initiative. Every way that he is involved in my life benefits me.
And half of you are gonna call me a pickme for…being happy and treating him with kindness, apparently.
And that’s fine. I really don’t care. I have no complaints in my life besides one annoying coworker, a scrotey grandfather I see twice a year, and combination skin. And that's pretty fucking great.
But for the people out here who are actually still trying to date; FDS can work, and HVM do exist. If you follow old school FDS. Not whatever the hell this is.
Sooo yeah, won’t be deleting my account, just my patreon, as I like to lurk just to keep abreast of things (as I do for scrotes forums, trad wives, etc). But this is the last post I'm engaging with. The FDS which once saved me has become, like those places, a mildly amusing circus to browse while I do a nice foot mask.
What happened I missed it lol