My mom is literally the queen of pickmes and I’m about to loose my cool with her.
I’m in my late 20s and I have been single for a very long time and of course I want to share my life with a man at some point but I don’t want to lower my standards and to end up with a LVM just because I was pressured into this by my pickme mom and she’s constantly telling me things like:
- Lower your standards! No man is perfect (she even told me this when a LVM tried to make me low my boundaries multiple times)
- You should go back to OLD (even though I’ve told her multiple times that every single guy I’ve met through OLD has been a waste of time)
- Every single time that I tell her that I went out with my friends she literally just asks me: Did you meet a man?
- “Marriage is the best thing that could ever happen to you”, even though her relationship with my dad is literally one of the things that makes me want to be single forever sometimes
And this are just a few of the things she tells me EVERY SINGLE TIME I SEE HER.