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I’ve been on a true crime binge since last year. I’ve always found the psychology and motivations behind why people commit crimes fascinating—really, I’m just intrigued by what drives human behavior in general. But until recently, I only paid attention to the high-profile cases. Now that I’ve read and listened to a huge number of stories, two major takeaways have really stuck with me:
Men are depraved. Yes, we already know this—especially around here—but the sheer level of depravity is astonishing. What’s even more disturbing is how often society just looks the other way or even makes excuses for them.
Pickmes will get you raped or killed. The number of cases where pickme behavior (regardless of how much upbringing plays into it) directly leads to the harm or death of their children, friends, colleagues, etc.? Absolutely insane. This has reminded me once again to press back against the bullshit other women spout that try to make us seem like we're too careful, too mean, too closed off, etc.
Please share lessons you may have learnt or taken away from any cases you've read or heard about, and note that this isn't about 'victim bashing'.
Listening to pickme advise too, I listened to Steve Harvey about giving an ugly man a chance, I did so and and I tell you right now that Ugly men are ugly from the inside out too. Then I saw a video of a pickme saying that she dated out of her type and he proposed, I try not to be rude on other ppls channel but I really wanted to rip that woman a new A hole for even posting that crap.
Never ever feel guilty waiting for a man at the finish line. Men would never date out of their interest or type unless you are a place holder. Don't ever settle for crap that you need to give other men a chance. At times you only kiss one frog turning into a prince but that is just as rare as winning the lottery, in most cases, you kiss a frog and it stays a frog.