https://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/dating/woman-flies-1500-miles-meet-22801777
This is why at the begining of the relationship, the guy should be proving himself to you, not the other way around. Women will always give 110% to a man, even if that man has not earned her trust. A guy can just love bomb you at the begining and drop you like you meant nothing.
I have devoted at least an hour a day on Reddit saving Pickme's from meeting strangers, going to their houses , drinking around rapey men. They are always gaslit to trust men no matter what and shamed out of common sence
I'm tired to see women die because of the society
Thank you! This is why we NEVER pay for tickets ladies. I've never seen it end well. Usually the guy: -leaves you stranded at the airport like in this article. -You discover he has another girlfriend or wife. - When you get there he uses you for sex and then never contacts you again once you go back home. -Guys who refuse to pay for tickets are often too cheap to take you out and show you a good time once you get there. So you will have to keep spending and spending on his cheap/broke behind. It's just never worth it. Always ask him to come to you. If he doesn't want to then block and delete. Plenty of ladies have had men fly to meet them and you deserve the same ❤
My man and I have been dating for about eight months. Things are going very well, and he is showing many signs that’s he’s a HVM who is in it to win it. He has started broaching the topic of marriage and is doing all the right things (as I continue to ruthlessly vet him with zero promises of commitment aside from not dating anyone else currently). He recently asked if he could fly me to his country on another continent so that he could show me his beautiful home city and so that I could meet his family. I agreed to it, but only because he never even mentioned the cost. He has booked us a room in a beautiful historic hotel for the duration of the trip even though we are planning to spend a couple of nights at his family’s home in the countryside. He kept the room, he said, in case I find that I would rather stay at the hotel after all. He has made reservations at various attractions, restaurants, wineries, and entertainment venues so that we can make the most of our trip but assured me that all are optional. Not once has he even hinted that I should pay for anything; in fact, I asked him about exchanging currency and he told me not to worry about it but that he would give me cash when I arrived if I wanted it. He is even arranging my transportation to and from the airports, and is of course meeting me there at the final destination airport because he is arriving a week before I do and staying a week later. His only regret, he said, is that he won’t be able to fly with me. Lovely ladies, this is what high value looks like. It’s not about the money, although that is also important, but about the effort he has put into it and his total consideration for my time and comfort. He wants to make me happy and proved it at every opportunity. Regardless of how serious we might be getting in our relationship, I would not have made the trip had he not paid for every part of it. And you shouldn’t either, because if he wants to, he will. If he doesn’t want to, he’s not good enough for you.
I wish I had the time to devote to forming an FDS outreach team. She needs it.
Omg I was that pick me !!! I was 24 that time went to his house on 1st date traveled 2 hours to meet him . When we got to the house he forced himself on me and obviously didt respect my boundaries. He forced himself on me . We had such a great thread about not travellinv to meet a man . There should be a whole discussion on it . Sisters DO NOT EVER TRAVEL TO MEET A MAN . DOEST MATTER ITS A UBER RIDE OR A SHORT BUS RIDE LET ALONE TRAVELLING BY AIR . Safely first. Always think we are not the exceptions but rule . I read it in WMLB going to travelling to meet a guy we might as well have a billboard attached to us saying ' we deliver ' . We as women should always be in our comfort zone to the point one small insult from a man we can get out of there quickly and as safely as possible .
I did go abroad to meet a guy, but he not only paid for my ticket, I made it clear I wouldn't be staying at his house and wanted a nice hotel, which he also paid. He didn't go in the hotel room with me, we went on dates.
I had never been to California before, so I enjoyed it.
I wouldn't travel one block for a guy let one fly across the country for one! That story is absolute craziness. She's lucky she was just abandoned; there are too many stories like that with a worse outcome.