She was well dressed and looks like a person who came from a Swiss finishing school. Some washed up male who seems much older than her tried to have a conversation with her and he's like " Can we date? I'll treat you right, when we move in together, I'll cook for you" And she's like I don't need you for that, I've been baking and making dishes since I would walk, I've been living for 10 years by myself in a clean house and most of you suckers just want a second mommy. "
I probably have been approached by these men too and all they have to offer is "un" conditional love. I don't need their love when I'm the one who needs to clean up after them or my house will turn into a pigsty, When I'm the one who has to split the bill with him but when it comes to raising children, he has all kinds of excuses not to split the responsibility. When I get the blame when he cheats or the relationship falls apart, when I get grief because he's hungry and I'm expected to pack his lunch, make breakfast, dinner and whenever he' wants to nibble on treats. When I have to support his career by letting mine fade into obscurity while his success is seen as his own achievement and you're just the lazy woman mooching off him according to his friends.
If a man has nothing to offer you besides his version of unconditional love then you know what to do.
I always receive hostility when I mention that men can't have standards if they don't come from a high caliber themselves. or that I'll end up alone thinking this way. but if you choose men like that then you'll end up alone in the long run anyway.
Stop choosing out of love, ask yourself what benefits does a man give when you start dating him?
If being nice, giving love, mooching off you. living in your house rent free with the false idea that he's great company is the only thing he can do for you then don't even bother.
If he can cook better than a 5-star restaurant, clean the house spotless like a 1950's wife, is in great shape, has the Butler mentality and always find something to do in the household and bring you drinks without being asked, being your personal mechanic and makes sure your tank is full. Is very handy and loves tinkering.
Look after you like your private nurse when you're sick with the flu, a true gentleman who is very keen in planning the best date for you. then maybe these hobosexuals are worth something but unfortunately, they bring nothing to the table.