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Most men have a LV character. They are either misogynistic, addicted to porn, selfish, into cheating, or gold diggers. I've noticed how most men I know are either looking for a trophy SO who is extremely attractive or a wealthy woman to leech off of. Leaving personality to the side, many men also have undesirable traits such as being unattractive or having a job that pays very little. Men who seem decent on a surface level are often taken and the ones seen as desirable are almost never single. Back when I was unwoke, all of my crushes turned out to be taken (and they may not even be that HV) and I doubt this is a coincidence. Many men have undesirable traits so the ones who seem desirable are off the market quickly.
I think I've given up on men. Coming across a compatible and single HVM who likes me back is so statistically improbable. The chances of the guy I'm dating turning out to be HV is very low compared to him being LV in disguise. It's probable not worth the effort to join activities just for the sake of meeting men...
My 3 year long abusive relationship with my ex over the COVID lockdown put me off sex and relationships. When I dumped him I felt finally happy and I don't want to let go of that feeling. I no longer have this need "to be loved" and it is so freeing. I no longer feel loneliness. I am the most successful and attractive I've ever been. Someone said "dating men in your 20s will leave you broke" she's not wrong. Us women commonly get entangled in our relationships and sacrifice for our man. This takes the focus away from yourself.
Most men put themselves first before anyone else. Most men do not like romance movies or TV shows. Most men also do not know how to cook and don't clean. Sex always included my boundaries and body being violated. Why would I want a relationship with this again ?
I'm there with you. Honestly, with everything I've got going in my life I dunno if I'll ever be bored enough to consider wasting my time on men again. The ROI in dating just isn't there anymore, and I have too much to accomplish to waste time on things that don't bring me benefit.
I hold out the hope that I'll come across a HVM somewhere out in the wild, but I am not basing my idea of a good life on it. In fact, the happiest years of my life since I was a young child have been the years I've spent being single.
I do feel like most men aren't worth it, They are big children and their baby mama's are the worst. They have the nerve to ask other women to babsit their kids while the men sits on their ass. Men are like this because of the manosphere, teaching men to give the bare minimum or even lower but want the maximum of women.
I am 100% right there with you. I have chosen to not date and I could not be happier. I have not dated since Dec 2020. If you want affection, just get a cat. No need for a man
Just date them for money and entertainment....
I had a guy take me out on dates, but since he was a decade older, I just made fun of him the whole time.
He fucking loved it, then I ghosted him.
He shoulda settled down.
Love yourself and other women first.
Rinse shitty porn addicts for all they are, and maybe a hvm will come along later.
I agree with this and love this website for this reason. Decenter men.
same, sister!
men are extremely overrated.
I feel that way sometimes and especially after a bad date. But in a few months, I start dating again.
Don’t lose hope, but also don’t lower your standards. A HVM will surely come your way.
What is the point of your post?
You claim to have given up on men, so why are you on a site called "The Female Dating Strategy"?