Most men have a LV character. They are either misogynistic, addicted to porn, selfish, into cheating, or gold diggers. I've noticed how most men I know are either looking for a trophy SO who is extremely attractive or a wealthy woman to leech off of. Leaving personality to the side, many men also have undesirable traits such as being unattractive or having a job that pays very little. Men who seem decent on a surface level are often taken and the ones seen as desirable are almost never single. Back when I was unwoke, all of my crushes turned out to be taken (and they may not even be that HV) and I doubt this is a coincidence. Many men have undesirable traits so the ones who seem desirable are off the market quickly.
I think I've given up on men. Coming across a compatible and single HVM who likes me back is so statistically improbable. The chances of the guy I'm dating turning out to be HV is very low compared to him being LV in disguise. It's probable not worth the effort to join activities just for the sake of meeting men...
I am 100% right there with you. I have chosen to not date and I could not be happier. I have not dated since Dec 2020. If you want affection, just get a cat. No need for a man