Indeed, why does he need a woman? Why need to go out and exhaust himself working and finding money -- only to lose it once he got home? Why go on all those "stupid" dates and pay for all those "stupid" dinners and acting like a stupid clown trying to impress her? Why go on tinder and desperately swipe right on every women you came across?
Why you go out to clubs and try put "something" into a woman's drink? Why stay with someone you absolutely hate for years and years -- even promising her marriage and all other bullshit, while saying you hate her and couldn't "wait" to get away from her? Why not just go f**k out of that door right now?
Why do you always just have to insert every opportunity to gaslight every women you came across -- and feel the intense need to get her attention when she is busily happy in her own world? Why you just have to "convince" an uninterested, unbothered woman minding her own business that her "wall" is coming soon and she "needs" a man right now?
And don't get me started on what you choose to spend your free time doing in the privacy of your own space. What did you spend your hard-earned wages on last week?
Why indeed, that when a man gets married and have children, these things happen:
1) He got raises and promotions at work -- that equates more money without him even having to do more because "he got kids and wife to feed at home"
2) He got trust and respect from the people around him and the community where he lives
3) People's perception of him is always positive -- "An honest and hardworking family man"
4) He can aim for leadership positions at work and in the community -- and his chances are good
5) People just like him wherever he goes, especially when he got kids hanging around him
And yet she will be the one who still carry the most burden physically and mentally -- even when you do half of chores and pay all the bills. And unless she got a solid ground or her own business -- her career faces risk when she got married and start a family. And even then she faces more risks when she started a family for so many reasons (not just kids).
Including but not limited to: in-laws, society's perception, discrimination towards mothers, perception that mothers have to be this weird super-woman martyr angelic "being" that have zero personality, thoughts and desires of her own. And also those stupid. ass. fetishes. from men of all ages. I've seen 12 years old acting inappropriate towards his friend's mother ffs. And she was still expected to be "understanding and the mature one, he is just a kid". Um, how about no you creep? Kids need to learn how to respect someone from an early age -- better to nip that creep tendency in the bud am I right?
So unless we "magically" wake up in a world where men carry half the pregnancy term, experience the same level of risk in money-making opportunities and every aspect of your damn life once married and starting a family, and experience the same type of trauma every time you are thinking of adding a new family member -- she literally risk her financial safety net, beauty, health, time, energy, peace, everything for you.
The man better be ready to compensate for every minute of her life she graciously chooses to spend with him. You need her -- she doesn't need you.
So shut the f**k up and get lost if you don't have what it takes. Go dwell in your "man"-cave or whatever and leave those women alone.