JFC he sounds insufferable.

Peter is an abuser. The CONFUSION, “making my head spin” - that is all abuse. His words were crazymaking and oppositional. Abuse.

Read it again if you'd like an example of how abusers begin to groom.

It's giving:

I bet his first choice wanted to go out on a date again and instead of being normal , decided to act like this so she’d end things first.

She shouldn’t have even texted him if he didn’t do it first though. And her saying she “likes that he’s direct” is dumb. That was the opposite of being direct. Shes acting like a pick me. Hopefully she learns from that encounter

"WoMeN are CoMpLicATed AnD ExpEct MeN tO ReAd ThEiR MiNdS"

Peter sounds like a gaslighter. And I bet he thinks he’s “too intelligent for most people”, despite using the wrong form of “you’re”

Notice how she knew from the get-go that something was off about this dude:

"not sure if he has any drives/passion about anything"

He probably is driven and passionate about some things, they just aren't the type of things to be divulged on a first date...or ever.

Good riddance. That entire exchange was crazy AF

What a complete nutter. He obviously gets off on being awful to women or has a screw loose.

Peter ate a thesaurus

'There's usually ambiguity in suggestions that is problematic to clear communication'....lectures the guy who dropped a 'hope we can do this again' at the end of the first date.

I think my face just became surgically attached to my palm.

It's incredible how it takes just ONE guy to make any of us feel like we've lost our marbles. Recently a guy has been making me feel in a similar way even though I've been nothing but kind to him. It's wild out there

"Haggle over precise wordings of communications" a play right out of the "Simple Sabotage Field Manual" produced in 1944 by none than the CIA. Lundy Bancroft was right in his book, Why Does He Do That? All abusive men are using the same tactics.

Imagine being this insane. He really tried to get her from the get go to establish he is smarter and better than her. I hate nothing more than men who try to get "moral" with me like this. Please, you have violated every person with your personality already, I dont need a lesson on how to be a good person from you.

this dude is an oblivion NPC or something lmao.

Jesus Christ this dude is a piece of work