I don’t know how people date more than one person. It sucks. I practically need a spreadsheet to remember who I told what, and no one wants to know the details of your other dates ....but for some reason they pry anyway about your schedule and what you’re doing and with who. When you are vague- even if it's just "with a friend"- they act like you are being shady, it's now wanting to know the friend's name and how you know them and etc. etc. When you answer in detail, you have to make stuff up, and my stories are believable but I am just not innately diabla enough to feel comfortable with it. I stress about being caught (and they do try to fact check me). It's exhausting. But at the same time it helps with becoming too attached to one. Does anyone else struggle with this? Do you just tell these guys you have a date and leave it at that? I'm sorry if this sounds pickme but I haven't multidated beyond 1 or 2 dates before, this is my first time seeing more than one person even after a half dozen dates (one would commit but I'm not sure if I want him yet). Thanks.
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i could not do that i can barely remember the names of people i meet. it would be pretty funny trying to guess the names though lol