....I couldn't be more grateful to God and any higher spiritual being. It's been over some years, since we dated, but damn, this man has aged poorly, since then.
Has put on so much weight, I could see his flabby arms and beer belly, from quite a distance. His hair is all long, like beyond his shoulders and unkempt. His entire face is covered with hair. I probably haven't seen such a disgusting beard, on any man's face, ever. In all, he looked absolutely clownish.
We spoke briefly, on where we were in our lives. He quit jobs after jobs, couldn't stay in one company, for more than a year. Meanwhile, I have been pursuing masters and another bachelors, which he once told me, I couldn't do.
I have worked on myself so much to be better in all spheres of life, that it feels great to see him consistently doing worse. Am I selfish to be thinking like this? Maybe! But, do I care? Absolutely not!
This really firms my belief that, a woman can never be her fullest self, when she's tied to a LV relationship. That's why, after any breakup, women keep becoming their better selves, while men keep getting worse.