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So today I was scrolling through Facebook and came across this interview by Channel 4 where men were being asked how often they wash their hair. Unsurprisingly (and unfortunately), a lot of them gave terrible answers. One guy even said he never washes his hair—but somehow moisturizes under his armpits? I was both horrified and yet... not surprised.
For context: I shower twice daily and wash my hair every single night. Cleanliness is basic to me—non-negotiable. My dad was very clean and capable, but honestly, almost every man I've dated has been the opposite. When I was a teenager, I chalked it up to immaturity. But now that I'm nearing my 40s and still meeting grown men who live in filth? It’s just depressing.
Out of all my relationships, two of my boyfriends were naturally clean and kept their spaces tidy. Every other one? Disgusting. Dirty houses, never mopped or vacuumed, dishes piling up, zero dusting, bathroom in chaos. I’ve literally had to beg a boyfriend to shower because he smelled awful. And then he had the nerve to complain about me “wasting water and soap”—which, mind you, I was paying for.
And the worst part? The cost of daily hygiene is nothing compared to everything else we spend money on. It's negligible. Yet for some of these guys, it's treated like a luxury or a chore.
A while back, I saw a video where a man explained why some guys turn into “neckbeards.” He basically said that since they don’t get attention from women even when they do clean up, they just stop trying. Like, if hygiene doesn’t guarantee women “dropping their panties,” what’s the point?
I don’t know if this is rooted in untreated mental illness, plain laziness, or if some men are just genuinely okay living in filth. Is this a cultural failure? Social conditioning? A lack of pride? Why don’t they care?
Story time:
I worked in a restaurant as a student and part of our duties was doing spot checks in the bathrooms (cleaners came to deep clean every day, but we did stuff like refill soap or toilet paper during the day when necessary). There was a little log book where you ticked off what you did when, so if you refilled soap in the ladies' room you ticked the box and wrote down the date and so on.
After a while I noticed that - while I regulary had to refill toilet paper in the stalls of both bathrooms - I never had to refill the paper dispensers next to the urinals. When I mentioned it to my colleagues one day and they said they'd also never had refill them we got curious and looked at the log book. And there it was: while the stall toilet paper had to refilled almost daily, the urinal paper lasted months, if not longer. You can draw your own conclusions about the hygiene of men after peeing.
As long as pickmes are happy and willing to suck their gross, unwashed, pee covered dicks, men won't change.
Men call showering two times a day extreme.. I don't expect much of these stinky smelly children.
Men should at least shower 3 times a day for 1 hour. Maybe the water would have reached their ass crack by then since washing themselves is considered gay.. but jerking off isn't?
Eww what r those gaps in his teeth looking like shreks long lost son