If a man who has cancer can yell, throw things, and enjoy alcohol, then he's not that sick and should 1) get a part-time job or 2) help around the house.
My dad worked full time and did housework well into his chemo treatment. His temper/attitude wasn't always the best, but he dragged his ass to his $250k/year job and even washed some dishes along the way. And he was in his 70s.
If my dad could do it, so can this man.
P.S. My dad is in remission now and still working and providing like a boss.
My father was terminally ill and in a wheelchair and still did the best he could to help out for as long as he was able to. If he could reach it or do it while sitting, he did. It was a matter of pride for him and he didn't want to be more of a burden than he had to be.
But a scrote is going to stay a scrote even if he is terminally ill.
So glad other women have the same experiences: my grandpa was terminally ill and he still did his chores (he was retired at the time so no work, just house chores). He snapped some days and was mean, but that was ONLY because he was in a LOT of pain and was scared to die. He could feel it when his heart failed and his pacemaker shocked him back to life. That's enough to put anyone in a horrible mood. Even angry, he made sure to tell my grandma everyday that he loved her and they would kiss each other goodnight. It was well understood after nearly 45 years of marriage that his anger was strictly due to his illness and he wasn't mean or in a bad mood 24/7! Most of the time he was still an active, loving, kind man who'd show up to my ball games, set the table for dinner, and be the best husband, father, and grandpa he could be.
These stories of terminally ill men being abusive monsters to the women who literally love and take care of them make me sick! Those men need to be left to die alone because there's literally no reason to waste your life with someone actively making it worse! I will also say, it's nearly ALWAYS an age gap?!
It's because the scrote was looking for a free nurse and maid, and are more than happy to vampirize on young women in the prime of their lives for it. They suck these poor women dry.
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Jan 22
He has longer than he's pretending.
She needs to be going into the doctors visits, because people WILL pretend to be sick.
She should have left a while ago. If he's really that sick, taxes will take care of him.
If shes gonna stay, she needs to get any life insurance policy that will accept him as the policy holder.
And if she's gonna stay, she should honestly date on the side. That's no relationship.
When I was depressed I was pretty ok with being abandoned, I thought I was a burden after all. He should let her go, he gave up and doesn't care anymore , but she didn't and she cares. He's just envious of her and lashing on her, he never loved her truly I'm afraid.
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Jan 23
Imagine knowing you only have a few years to live and choosing to live like this scrote is: playing computer games, being an alcoholic, abusing his partner and neglecting their pooch. What a complete and utter loser.
It's pathetic that this woman still believes that she 'loves him deeply'. She needs to leave and start living her life. Women like this need to wake up and realise that even if you once loved someone, you can stop loving them whenever you like, and you should stop loving them when they treat you like shit.
My friend’s dad had stomach cancer and had six months to live. In the last 2 months, he was confined to his bed. He never spent a dime on himself, and started to slowly transfer money to his daughter’s bank account.
Agree with everyone already questioning whether this woman's husband's terminal illness is even real. I hope she's not just taking his word for it. This reminds me of a video I saw recently about men faking entire cancers to get women to serve them. I was gobsmacked, I thought I already have a pretty good idea of how low they will sink - I was not expecting it to be common for men to fake serious illness. In my culture it's very bad juju to lie about such things. If she's from a similar cultural background as me, maybe that's why she doesn't suspect he's faking.
If a man who has cancer can yell, throw things, and enjoy alcohol, then he's not that sick and should 1) get a part-time job or 2) help around the house.
My dad worked full time and did housework well into his chemo treatment. His temper/attitude wasn't always the best, but he dragged his ass to his $250k/year job and even washed some dishes along the way. And he was in his 70s.
If my dad could do it, so can this man.
P.S. My dad is in remission now and still working and providing like a boss.
So glad other women have the same experiences: my grandpa was terminally ill and he still did his chores (he was retired at the time so no work, just house chores). He snapped some days and was mean, but that was ONLY because he was in a LOT of pain and was scared to die. He could feel it when his heart failed and his pacemaker shocked him back to life. That's enough to put anyone in a horrible mood. Even angry, he made sure to tell my grandma everyday that he loved her and they would kiss each other goodnight. It was well understood after nearly 45 years of marriage that his anger was strictly due to his illness and he wasn't mean or in a bad mood 24/7! Most of the time he was still an active, loving, kind man who'd show up to my ball games, set the table for dinner, and be the best husband, father, and grandpa he could be.
These stories of terminally ill men being abusive monsters to the women who literally love and take care of them make me sick! Those men need to be left to die alone because there's literally no reason to waste your life with someone actively making it worse! I will also say, it's nearly ALWAYS an age gap?!
He has longer than he's pretending.
She needs to be going into the doctors visits, because people WILL pretend to be sick.
She should have left a while ago. If he's really that sick, taxes will take care of him.
If shes gonna stay, she needs to get any life insurance policy that will accept him as the policy holder.
And if she's gonna stay, she should honestly date on the side. That's no relationship.
When I was depressed I was pretty ok with being abandoned, I thought I was a burden after all. He should let her go, he gave up and doesn't care anymore , but she didn't and she cares. He's just envious of her and lashing on her, he never loved her truly I'm afraid.
Imagine knowing you only have a few years to live and choosing to live like this scrote is: playing computer games, being an alcoholic, abusing his partner and neglecting their pooch. What a complete and utter loser.
It's pathetic that this woman still believes that she 'loves him deeply'. She needs to leave and start living her life. Women like this need to wake up and realise that even if you once loved someone, you can stop loving them whenever you like, and you should stop loving them when they treat you like shit.
BIG SUCK!
My friend’s dad had stomach cancer and had six months to live. In the last 2 months, he was confined to his bed. He never spent a dime on himself, and started to slowly transfer money to his daughter’s bank account.
This is just pure manipulation.
Who wants to bet that the woman is asian and the scrote is a creepy white guy who sees asian women as submissive fuckmaids?
God, I hope she sets a precedent.
Man is literally a financially dependent terminally ill alcoholic but still has scrotatious audacity.
Know your place dude.
Agree with everyone already questioning whether this woman's husband's terminal illness is even real. I hope she's not just taking his word for it. This reminds me of a video I saw recently about men faking entire cancers to get women to serve them. I was gobsmacked, I thought I already have a pretty good idea of how low they will sink - I was not expecting it to be common for men to fake serious illness. In my culture it's very bad juju to lie about such things. If she's from a similar cultural background as me, maybe that's why she doesn't suspect he's faking.