I was called a *** hag recently, and it sparked a little rage, and made me think…
So, a few things, there was a time in my life where I was part of a community that had a large gay population. It was very easy to make friends and I connected to quite a few gay men. I learned that some gay men can be just as fucking touchy as straight men. In other words, they believe they can touch us, at will, particularly bc they are not sexually attracted to us. They grab our breast and slap our asses or try to kiss us with an open mouth. Even gay men treat us like objects. Why? Bc they are still men.
Do you know I had a drag Queen tell me that I don’t know how hard it is to be a drag Queen? That Asshole. He literally gets dressed up like me and then tells me I don’t know how hard it is.
In fact, when women behave flamboyantly were labeled as loud-mouth bitches. When men do it for fun, they are stars and everyone claps and cheers and throws money at them.
We are queens all day every day, but the only ones that can scream their fabulousness from the rooftops, with gleeful feedback, are men pretending to be women.
Women, we can say no. We can hold ALL men accountable. No, I’m not a *** hag (ugh), no you may not touch me and no you are not more of a Queen than me, nor will you ever be.