I was called a *** hag recently, and it sparked a little rage, and made me think…
So, a few things, there was a time in my life where I was part of a community that had a large gay population. It was very easy to make friends and I connected to quite a few gay men. I learned that some gay men can be just as fucking touchy as straight men. In other words, they believe they can touch us, at will, particularly bc they are not sexually attracted to us. They grab our breast and slap our asses or try to kiss us with an open mouth. Even gay men treat us like objects. Why? Bc they are still men.
Do you know I had a drag Queen tell me that I don’t know how hard it is to be a drag Queen? That Asshole. He literally gets dressed up like me and then tells me I don’t know how hard it is.
In fact, when women behave flamboyantly were labeled as loud-mouth bitches. When men do it for fun, they are stars and everyone claps and cheers and throws money at them.
We are queens all day every day, but the only ones that can scream their fabulousness from the rooftops, with gleeful feedback, are men pretending to be women.
Women, we can say no. We can hold ALL men accountable. No, I’m not a *** hag (ugh), no you may not touch me and no you are not more of a Queen than me, nor will you ever be.
Yessss!! Oml It's so annoying when women treat gays like they are so special type of man. I thought gay men were just men, their sexuality is just different, so we should treat them equally as men, right? Right!?! Gay men still have just as much rights, if not more due their easier access to women , as men in this patriarchy we live in. Men are still men in the patriarchy- whether they put on nail polish, identify as women, suck dick etc. ALL doesn't just mean straight men, some of these ladies need to knock it off. Women constantly allow them into our spaces assuming they are our allies by default, but the second they get home these gays laugh about how "fishy" it all was.