I wanna know icks from a LVM you have met

I ordered grocery delivery, about 10 items or so for myself, a single woman. The shopper turned out to be an older man who, when dropping the bags off, acted so overwhelmed and said "I did the best I could!!!" handing them over in the most dramatic and exasperated way. When I saw that he got the wrong item and chose mouldy vegetables, I hesitated to give that feedback within the app. I realized I felt bad for him for having such a hard time grocery shopping. But then I remembered about men's learned helplessness when it comes to simple things like shopping and cooking. I ended up leaving the feedback but I had to amp myself up to do it.

Gross old guy sat next to me on the bus once. Saw I was reading religious material, so he decided to monologue at me about how “God created the woman for the man. And he made her attractive, cos otherwise the man might have hurt her. But she exists for him.” and other insane rantings.

I'm glad you posted this! Last week, I was at the laundry mat and this guy approached me....he kept mumbling something....and I couldn't hear shit lol so I just ignored him. I felt like something was off about him so I just kept my eye on him. I watched him approach another woman and he asked her, "How much would it cost for you to do my laundry?" I was dead! He only had one bag of clothes and was out her begging us to wash his shit💀! The lady looked at him like wtf I'm not doing that lmao. He then pulled out his wallet and told her he'd pay her $40! She took the money lol and did his laundry...but when he left the lady and I spend the whole time talking shit about him.

I had a coworker once who got my number from another coworker (I'm sure it doesn't need to be said here, but don't give out other people's numbers without their permission, folks!). At first it was just dumb memes and crap, and I love dumb memes, so I tried to roll with it. Then one day, he decided to apparently launch the conversation into low Earth orbit by texting me how he had had sexual dreams about me and projecting his sexual fantasies on to me, like how he thought I would like "rough" sex (wtf who thinks this stuff is appropriate to tell a person you work with?! I would never tell things like this to someone I wasn't already intimately involved with) etc etc. I couldn't hit that "block" button fast enough. Recalling the memory makes me scrunch my face up in disgust. This is yet another reason I am literally in love with burner numbers/burner apps. Only my family and close friends get my legit number now.

Incels who put themselves immediately by dismissing that the way to get women is to treat them like real people.

Here’s a very light ick. Or maybe it’s the FDS training that taught me to expect more from men, like actually communicating Before we begin, some backstory: I am in a happy relationship. My friend “L” and I were playing darts at a bar that neither of us have been to. Just us 2 When L went to use the bathroom, I was alone at the table. A man walked up to me and put out his hand to shake mine. I did and he then just stood next to me. I expected him to say anything at all, so I just said “hello?” He asks a rhetorical question: “so you’re playing darts?” ….”yep, playing darts” Then he says, “so I’m leaving this bar soon, if you want my contact information.” I ask, “what are your intentions?” He did not appear to expect that question. He did not answer it with a clear answer and just repeated that he was leaving soon and if I wanted I could take down his info…. I said I’m only looking for friends, and did not share anything else By then L had returned The guy took out his phone as if to trade info, then decided against it and said he “didn’t want to complicate things for [me]” and walked away This guy couldn’t tell me his intentions, was awkward AF about the entire thing. It’s like he expected me to respond a certain way and carry the convo and interpret him somehow? Weird.

Whenever they make "jokes" that are unfunny and sexist.

I went out with an LVM and we had a cooler with us to pack lunch for a picnic. I told him everything was ready, all we needed was a bag of ice. I thought he was going to bring a bag of ice from the grocery store but no. The fucktard really showed up with a ziplock bag of a few pieces of ice from his freezer. I immediately knew it was weaponized incompetence. Then he hugged me and pressed his limp chode on me without my consent and I pushed him away. What a disgusting cock gargling moron. I made his stupid ass pay for everything that day. He was also apparently deprived of interaction with children. Some 10 year old girl was running and had to pause and crouched down. He saw this and ran over to her asking if she was alright and doing the hover-hand over her shoulder (wtf weird!) I wanted to say, "step away from the child!" Anytime he saw a random kid that he thought was almost in trouble, he'd be hyper worried about them. He has no idea what it's like to raise kids. I said, "hmm you should become an EMT." He's all, "I couldn't handle it." Yeah I'm sure you can't handle being a contributing member of society and a hero to someone in need *eye roll* btw I was an EMT for years so hearing his opinion on EMT work was super cringe. If he can't handle actually being useful to someone in pain, what is he doing comforting random children when I'm supposed to be his company who he can't even treat right? Funny he's so obsessed with kids but can't even respect the people who make them-- women. When I walked with him in a crowd, he'd frequently say, "watch out you're gonna run into that person!" which I never did. What kind of idiot just walks into people? It was weird how he underestimated my ability to walk in public and probably a projection of his own inabilities. He can't drive without getting distracted and almost rear-ending other cars. I let him drive my car once and the worthless scrote didn't even thank me or see the value in me letting him drive it. He just thought he was going to drive my car again wherever he wanted, and he actually asked to drive it again lol. I told him to rent a damn car. He did and still drove all spaced out with it and I had to remind him multiple times on how to drive because he couldn't be bothered to keep me safe and comfortable. Texted him later saying he's a huge rapey creep, and he needs to stop assaulting people by pressing his dirty needle on everyone. Blocked/deleted. People like this don't want a nice day out with you. They want to sabotage and upset you, and that's the only thing that makes them happy/gets them off.

OK I just listened to the "40 Years a NEET" Podcast episode. In that episode they talked about the NEETS who ended up homeless because (in many cases) the female caretaker they had depended on had died, OR they burned their last bridge with their last relative. I had a NEET living in my attic in 2012-2013 and he was 62 years old!!!!! I was scouring this site for a thread that was talking about the "40 years a NEET" podcast episode but couldn't find one.

I thought that podcast episode was great. They kept mentioning that some people just want to be NEETS because they just WANT to. Anyway in 2012-2013 I mistakenly let a "down on his luck" member of our liberal discussion group move into my attic BIG MISTAKE. He truly had burned every bridge and was 62 and didn't have a cent to his name and wouldn't get a job because if he got a job he'd owe the IRS. Supposedly he had worked at Oracle but had blown through his 401K all before he was 62 and just wanted to be a NEET the rest of his life. He was talking about getting a tent in the woods. Fine by me. Anyway if you have not listened to the "40 years a NEET" episode it is great. What is wrong with men that they end up this way rather than eke out a living however meager, and put a roof over their damn head?

@FineDeliciousSnakes lmao!