All you hear from the scrotes/lvm/nvm/redpillers crybabies is that "WoMeN hYpErGaMoUs" and constantly accuse us of only wanting a 10/10 Chad.
However, I belong to a growing number of people who firmly believe that everything redpillers claim/say is just projection of their own way of thinking.
Everywhere you see: in movies/series/Hollywood/irl, all prove the opposite of what men accuse of: you have the nerdy, geeky,unmatable guys feel enetitled to date only the 10/10 supermodel that all men want. You never see them pursuing the "nice geeky girl", you never see fat men pursuing fat women, you never see ugly men date their looksmatches...
The whole "Alpha F*cks/Beta Buxx" illusion made up by men is just projection of how THEY view women, and only exposes how men hierarchize women based solely on their physical appearance:
-The "GigaStacy": the 10/10 supermodel men want to date/offer lavish lifestyles even if it is beyond their earning capacity.
-The "beta" woman, the "nice submissive", "not so attractive" woman who's just good enough to nurture and put up with teir man's baggage and furgality (because men don't believe women under 10/10 deserve the same amount of attention and love)
Case in point: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13xtg0a/q4m_what_do_you_think_is_acceptabletolerable_for/
Yes, I agree that redpillers are projecting.
I was a pickme for decades, and I always dated mid- to ugly- guys, even though I’m conventionally attractive, because of super low self esteem. Movies all sell us the “ugly dude with heart of gold gets hot babe” trope - and I fell for it.
These days, I don’t think looks are everything, but I definitely want to feel attracted to my partner & feel good being seen with him.
Men of all levels of attractiveness feel entitled to attractive women. The message is everywhere: movies, TV porn, novels, etc.
Women are naturally more attractive than men anyway. We have more value than men, and we always look nicer. So men are always getting a good deal if we choose to be with them.
To be honest, I'm also ugly and I don't wanna date my looksmatch, but I'd never go out with someone I wasn't attracted to. I find that disrespectful. I just think that if I ever date a bad-looking person, I'd be admitting my own unattractiveness. I don't want a 10/10, just someone average. It's kind of a stupid thought, though, because love is about personality and that thing, but can you truly be happy with someone you know you're solely dating because you are too ugly to be with who you actually want to? I just can't fathom the idea of living with someone that reminds you of your own ugliness.
I've never dated anyone, but when I see ugly people matching-up (like, for example, obese people), I can't help but think that they don't truly love each other because they remind each other of their own flaws. But, at the same time, I'd feel like shit if my partner were to look much better than me. I know people judge the uglier-looking person in a relationship, so I know they'll judge me.
I just feel that, when you're ugly, there aren't much things to enjoy in life.