Listening to the FDS podcast has upped my standards so much but I'm still struggling with the vetting process. I am a newly pickmeisha in recovery so to speak.
Anyway, I matched with this 42 year old (I'm 34) on a dating app. Conversation was flowing and of course I found him attractive. THEN when I asked him to send me a live current pic of him, he looked so much older than his app pics!! I then looked him up on Facebook and saw all those pics were from 8-10 years ago! I feel super pissed off and misled. One of my girlfriends told me this is actually a huge red flag and to tread carefully with this guy. Would you ladies consider this a reason to cut him off? I mean every time I talk to him I feel resentful!
Also the fact that he's 8 years older than me pisses me off too because of everything I've learned from FDS. I feel entitled to a guy my age or at most 5 years older. How do you guys keep from hating men after listening to the podcasts?