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The stupidest thing a woman in a relationship can do is give her man reason to think she's more into him than he is into her- to the extent where she's willing to do things for him that don't apply vice versa or tolerate shit he himself never would from her for the sake of maintaining the relationship.
Cause the moment when you do that is the moment when he realizes, in the words of Oogie Boogie himself
"You. Ain't. Going. Nowhere!"
and the moment when that happens is the moment when (even for the "nicest" of guys) a switch goes off in his mind that relegates you to "sucker" status and that's how you end up in a marriage like Justin and Hailey Bieber.
That's why when a man asks you to change his name you look that scrote in the eyes, stand your ground and say "sure I'll do it. On the condition that you change yours to my maiden one. Our kids can have hyphenated last name"
This also applies for when he wants you to convert to his family religion. Agree on the condition that he converts to yours.
The moment he voices objection is the moment you high-tail it out of there.