Blocked from Tinder for not putting out

@estrogramcl oh jeez...I didn't know that one had a bad rep. I was thinking about signing up for it today. I have been speaking with cs, but they keep sending me form responses that you can't appeal bans and not addressing a single question I have. I think it might be a bot at this point.....

Oh well. Maybe I'll see if there are some singles events in the area instead

I was once temporarily banned because a guy pestered me simply because he was in my area and I posted a CashApp link. Forgetting that I had violated the TOS doing that(!) I got banned. But someone else who I had also met there told me my profile was still available. I think they looked at the chat and only banned me temporarily. You do not have any chat logs on Tinder where he indicated his BS behavior, do you?

I don't. His bad behavior occurred in person, not via chat unfortunately 😕

In my imagination, I did 😂 to be honest, I wasn't upset because I knew he was a miserable person and I was about to take myself shopping. Also, I was feeling rather proud of myself for bouncing as quickly as I did and maintaining the high ground. I could see that he was upset that I wasn't taking the bait. He can die mad

If you knew he was miserable before the date, you should not have gone. If you knew upon meeting him, then get out of their quick

I did not know before I went, which is why I went. Nothing prior to meeting indicated he would be a monster. And I did leave quickly.

That's the thought I was having. When I say my experiences on tinder prior to this were really good, I truly mean it. I got good at weeding out turds and the dates I went on were a great time. Clearly this one slipped through, but the way the app handles things has left a bad taste in my mouth. Thinking this is a sign

Honestly? I did Hinge and Bumble prior to Tinder and I had a far better experience with Tinder. I genuinely met a lot of people who were absolutely lovely, who I went on great dates with. We just weren't a total match so we parted ways on good terms. This is the only time it went poorly. It's the only reason that I'm bummed that I can't use it anymore. It was a very easy, casual way to see who was out there without dedicating tons of energy to looking

I keep hearing bad things about hinge, but I've always had a positive experience with it

@Gipsy_bird I have been using OLD before I found FDS. Let's say, I was very vulnerable to liberal feminism. All my female friends were liberal feminists and the male friends I had back then were what you would call porn sick. I have found the light and I haven't been using it since then but it did leave some scars. As girls & young women we have been fed a lot of stuff along the lines of "fck like a man but act like a lady" aka have casual sex and don't be upset afterwards. I edited my post because just recounting that brought me flashbacks.

As for OLD consumption, I know FDS is not against it. For some women it may be the only viable option to meet someone.

@Satur9💜🐉⚔️ I’m happy that you found another way and realized that what you were doing wasn’t bringing you anything but bad feelings. I understand you because I’ve been there too! I was just like you described. It left lots of scars. I commented on your post because it made me remind me of my olds days and how bad was that time! I’m glad for us that we now know better!

@RBGs-ghost I didn’t reply to you! I replied to the story that satur9 told!

This is both surprising and not surprising at the same time. Men: there's not enough women on dating sites Also men: *ban women from dating sites* Men again: where did all the women go?! *surprised Pikachu face* Maybe I'll ditch online for now. I have plans to increase how frequently I go out. Maybe I'll bump in to someone in the wild

@RBGs-ghost I haven't seen the recent stats, but the last I heard, it was about 80/20 (more men) on the sites.

I think that's a good decision. The apps don't seem to care much about women's safety anyway. Good luck!

I don't think they are. I get the feeling they get a report and a bot takes care of the rest. After speaking with "customer service" I got the feeling that I still wasn't talking to a human. Their loss though. Pretty soon their entire business model will be catfishing thirsty dudes with bots because real women won't use the platform

@RBGs-ghost Exactly