I got Hinge (I know, I know but I just moved to a new country so I thought why not) matched with this one guy, a bit later he messages me and joked around a bit and after like 4 messages he asked for my Instagram and said “to set up the whole foods date” on my profile one of my prompts I wrote about whole foods lol. Anyways I give him my IG and he messaged me back on hinge saying he added me. Then I accepted him and followed him back but I never messaged him back on hinge. I started stalking his following and I’ve noticed there’s these girls, assuming girls from hinge. Anyways he watches my stories for that day but I don’t hear anything from him. So the day after I unfollowed him and removed him from my followers list lol. I’m now wondering if I reacted too l quickly?? I found it weird he didnt message me but watched my IG stories?? Idk I tend to cut off men very easily lol so I’m not sure if I reacted too quickly here
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Not quick enough. Don't give your insta to men you haven't met.
You did the right thing. He sounds like a harem builder 🙄
What part of being ruthless do you not understand?
Well done on cutting him off. Now keep him blocked forever, and move on with your life.
No such thing as too fast;only too slow.
Don't give strange men your insta, there's a whole lot of information people can get from pictures you post. You can ask for his account instead if you want to vet through it. I'd say block him on insta so he cannot access anything you post.
You cut him quick and swiftly enough though. That's how ruthless we should be.
No.
I think what you've done can be very difficult for many women because we are not taught to trust ourselves and we are encouraged to be "nice".
Your feelings are your treasures and jewels and you honestly honored yourself immensely and stood by yourself and took the best action. I'm proud of you tbh.
If you ended up dating him you would still have those same issues of him just watching your story and making you feel nervous so you'll chase him...
This is very common on the apps and online dating because the men on there are primarily receivers. He was waiting for you to message him because it guarantees he gets access with no commitments.