Basically i was at the gym and I overheard some guy talking to one of his friends. They looked like dudebros so my expectations weren’t high anyways lmao. Guy starts talking about how his gf apparently really likes spicy food. Like really really REALLY likes it. So he’s made it his personal mission to find the absolute hottest food in the city because he gets really annoyed that she can handle any spicy dish he gives her. Like he is intentionally trying to find a dish that will “fuck her day up” and I guess be so spicy that she’s in pain (??). it feels like a neg tactic but I’m not sure
I know that spicy food probably isn’t completely related to FDS but this conversation actually bothered me from the lessons I’ve learned here…but I can’t quite articulate whats wrong here (maybe because the topic is so random lol), but it gave me red flag feelings. Help me articulate my thoughts ya’ll would you break up with someone for something like this if you were aware of it? I think I would.