I'm engaged to a man who seems great (so far) and we're getting married in January. I am really interested in the idea of premarital counseling but I have some questions.
1. Is it necessary if you've been vetting all the way through the relationship?
2. Is it usually a programme / curriculum that you work through, or do you have to come with your own ideas of what you want to get out of it?
3. How do you go about finding a counselor with feminist principles?
4. It seems like many are quite religious. Is this just a religious thing?
We are a Jewish couple living in a European country where we are not fluent in the languge so we would prefer online counseling with a native English speaker, either secular or Jewish. I'd love to hear any personal experiences, good or bad, especially with online sessions. I would also be extremely grateful for a recommendation of a counselor to look up.