Tired of not meeting hot men

I feel this so much.

Sometimes, when am in a busy place (like a train station or cafe looking at a busy street) I look around at the men walking by and there is not a single one I find attractive. Not one. Even if I consider all ages and ask myself "Would I date this man if I was I teenager or 50 or 60 and it was age appropriate?". Not one. And I am not even a person who is only into the "male supermodel" type. It's sad.

I sometimes feel like in my age range (I'm in my 30s) all the attractive men I meet are either gay, married, losers, narcissists or fuckboys (or all of those things) and I fear it's going to get worse. I mean, what good reason could there be for an attractive, intelligent, financially stable and HV man in his 30s or 40s to be single? I also don't want a man who has kids or who is divorced, so the pickings are even slimmer.

My friend got divorced and was so gung-ho about getting into online dating for the first time ever, even though I warned her not to get her hopes up. A day after she signed up, she literally texted me that. 😆 "Where are all the hot guys??"

Yep. And sucks too that if you find one hot or kinda, at the very first minute into a conversation he makes pretty clear to be an asshole because exudes narcisism due to his looks. Not worth either.

I feel doubly cursed, as not only am attracted to men, but I am attracted to white men. Try finding a good-looking white man these days. They've practically all let themselves go. Most Black, Asian, Latino, Arab (heck any other race but white) men understand that they should shave, do their hair, wear clean clothes, and put some thought into their outfits. Today's white men are overwhelmingly basement-dwelling neckbeards.

I feel the same as you. Most men are not that attractive.

Hottest guy I've met in WELL over a decade chatted me up at Meijer. No joke.

This might be the first reason I'm single. I can't find one man attractive if my life depended on it. The last man I found attractive was literally 17 years ago, but when I saw him a few years later, I felt repulsed by him, thinking "How did I find him good-looking?" which is weird, maybe.

So far, the only men who are remotely handsome have been priests (most of them, however, are unremarkable looking at best) - or they're the wrong religion (sorry, couldn't resist that one).

Felt this. I lived in my hometown, a country area in another state, and now in a major city area in a completely different state. Every time I have gone out the men around my age and a little older are: fugly, dress like they are homeless, unkempt, bad conversationalists/ super awkward, and bring nothing to the table. Majority of them smell.

I really thought there'd be better options especially with being in a nice, big city but they're only more egotistical while looking and smelling even worse.

I feel you. I was on a solo vacation and flew back home the other day. I notice a cute man checking me out at the gate. I board and sit in the first class seat, and he also is sitting close by in first class. We exchange smiles. Then he gets up at one point and I finally get a clear view of shirt.,,it has a pic of sperm and says “here’s an old pic of me.”

Instant turn off, I looked away and avoided eye contact with him when we got off the plane. I thought, “thank goodness he wore that shirt.”

The hot HVM are all in relationships or married 😭

It's the ones no women want who are roaming the streets these days

Work at a modeling agency if you are young enough to date ages 18-25. Or go to the hippest most pretentious part of an expensive city, but be prepared for mostly gay and/or fuckboys.

Besides that, it's kind of like asking: what's the easiest way to get rich quick?