I'm fairly new to this forum so I'm not sure if Anna Bey has been brought up before - but I seriously love this woman's channel. She's all about leveling up. I found her a year and a half ago and her videos have helped me become the most refined version of myself possible.
She mostly talks about fashion, elegance, and high society, but this video on LVM is gold. Her first point is that a LVM will make you go 50/50.
"I'd rather be single than be with somebody that really isn't up to the level that I feel I deserve to be treated"