I see a lot of posts that go like this: Dear FDS, [Ten paragraphs of justification about how great a man is] There is just one problem [insert heinous, deal breaker issue]. What do I do? I have been guilty of this for many years myself. The way we tell our stories reflects our self worth and our

TikTok pickmes have started talking about the “pearl earring theory,” which is that women should stop wearing pearl earrings because they are viewed as intimidating, expensive or high-maintenance —qualities that might “scare away” potential suitors. Lmao! So there you have it...pearl earrings are

You heard me. STOP. What the hell are you doing? There’s no way that in this political landscape, you are opening your legs to any male for ANY reason. I don’t care if he is a prince and also a fucking billionaire, DO NOT HAVE SEX! The moment you have sex with them, they view you as a powerless litt

Hopefully this post is allowed lol. I know that the man's character is far more important than the size of his buttocks, and I know that determining if the man is HV or LV or NV is definitely priority over his ass measurements.... But men care about the size of our breasts, waist, butt, the size

I’ve noticed something on this platform that I’d like to address and I’d also like to ask everyone a question. What are you looking for? Seriously, I don’t think this has truly been a consideration on here. Sure, we talk about desirable traits of a HVM, but what do you WANT? A man being HV is the

American women have never been this resigned to staying single. They are responding to major demographic shifts, including huge and growing gender gaps in economic and educational attainment, political affiliation and beliefs about what a family should look like. “The numbers aren’t netting out,”

I saw this on the 4B subreddit (I recommend checking it out—it’s very much FDS-aligned), and I completely agree with this post. I had to share it. Red pill, manosphere, and incel culture overwhelmingly inflate male value. When they create a checklist of what they want in a woman, it’s not just abou

The idea that men can ever “settle” for women is one of the biggest jokes I’ve ever heard. In reality, men should be grateful that a woman even chooses them. Historically, most men never even reproduced, so the fact that a woman is willing to be with him—let alone risk pregnancy—is something he shou

I really reccomend checking out Dose of Pink on TikTok she has a whole series on how to avoid red pill males. These red pill Males are actually psychopaths, who have nothing to offer Women and they are teaching Males on how to manipulate Women. Insecure Women who have low self worth should not be d

Came across a viral Instagram reel where young men argued for paying the bill on a first date. They’re a skit comedy page which makes the post less healing to watch (lol) but the messaging is still solid. Refreshing to hear men defend why it’s necessary and confirm what paying for a date conveys for

This viral video is starting to make rounds: Boyfriend Surprises Girlfriend with Her Parents (Only video I could find on youtube, just mute it if you don't want a narrator and schmaltzy music) First impression might lead you to believe that this indicative of someone who is a great partner, a gr

How many women see their partner’s true colours on their wedding day/ honeymoon?,https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16cmvju/how_many_women_see_their_partners_true_colours_on/ I feel like no matter how much we vet, it is never enough to stop ending up with scrotes. How can we "vet aw

Translation: Are you for or against a 10 year old gap relationship where the woman is under 25 and the man is mid-30s? The answers are mostly "yes" Différence d’âge 10 ans, votre avis?,https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFrance/comments/1gc21p7/diff%C3%A9rence_d%C3%A2ge_10_ans_votre_avis/ Tr

If you are looking for an accountability partner in terms of vetting out the LVM, or in terms of self improvement, I can volunteer 😃 Anyone interested?

I saw this on the feminist subreddit, and I genuinely can’t believe we’re still having these conversations—women discussing paying half of the bills for men. Of course, the scrotes were happy in the comment section. But you had women saying, “I pay so the man doesn’t expect anything.” Men, regardl

Found this on the 4B subreddit, I love the convos women are having online on Reddit. I’m glad this is becoming more recognised and women are recongnising their worth.

"Nope. A woman’s «  job » evolutionarily speaking is not to get married and have kids. Her "role" is to have kids, but only with men with matable traits. Traits that are positive that get passed onto the next generation in order to respect the ecosystem. Not all males deserve to reproduce. So if 90

And then they will blame you and call you "run through" and "damaged" once they're done. Especially red pill guys. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DIHnAPLT6JZ/?

Began talking to a guy on OLD that seemed to be a HVM. I kept vetting - the red flags were in neon! He asked that we meet but dress down. No makeup, haircut, perfume, hair extensions etc. lots of emojis smiling and laughing. I declined stating I enjoy looking and smelling great. A few day

Hi ladies, feel free to agree or disagree with me, chime in with whatever your thoughts are on this post. Basically, I see a massive uptick in red pill derangement syndrome from men - mostly on X, but I see it infiltrating all areas of life. From the local radio presenter claiming women use men for

This is where you’re disciplined enough to respect your self worth and ignore your fleeting feelings. Definitely a reminder to myself today. I don’t need to go into all the details, but a man approached me at my gym, who I genuinely do like, but fails to meet almost all of my standards for dating m

I was just re-reading the handbook for a refresher since it's been a long time since I first read it. So there's this part about how a man who changed his behaviour after the woman was honest about her standards. So at first he had a LV atittude. Then she let him know she didn't appreciate it and he

Men make countless excuses for why they can't find a wife. Instead of reflecting on themselves, they go on monologues about mythical "gold diggers" who only want the top 5% of men. Where they got that statistic is beyond me lol. And the fact they think they're part of the 95% is kinda funny. Get so

“You don’t owe anything to a man who has rejected you. Rejection is a clear signal that he doesn’t see you in the same light, and it’s important to honor that without sacrificing your self-worth. If you have feelings for someone who doesn’t reciprocate, stepping back is okay. Staying in a situati

And women are nowhere near as emotional as men are. Men mistake a lack of empathy and emotional intelligence as logic. Nope. Men are VERY sensitive. I see how quickly they fight each other just because someone looked at them funny. I've watched men gossip and spreading rumors about each other, ta

I'd love to hear from all of you QUEENS about the things you think you have a stronghold on in dating, and the things you are working on getting better at. With the things you do well.... how do you think you make them happen? Just a random list off the top of my head: 1. My men cook for me and

Beware the man who touts himself as a “very giving” person. It will usually come up like this: “I’m a very giving person. Unfortunately, because of that, I’ve been taken advantage of in the past.” This is intended so you will drop your guard. So you will say “Oh no, poor baby! He doesn’t deserve

I have always been the ugly short chick in HS,MS and college and almost every man was borderline ashamed of even being seen with me in public. Now those same types of men have hit the wall so hard that they look unrecognizable. Not only that,but many of them are divorced with at least one kid under