If you don't have kids, then don't date men with them. Most times, they're looking for a Mommy (for both him and his kid[s]) McBangmaid.
I can't tell you how many times men with BRAND NEW BABIES, a month old or younger, hit on me while the new baby mama is still healing from pushing out the scooters kid. I always told them they needed to be with their kid and not out here trying to make more baby mamas.
What always chilled me is when they told me that I wouldn't have to deal with the kid(s) or th baby mama(s). First of all, LIE! GIGANTIC LIE! Secondly, you'd throw your infant child under the bus to satisfy your diseased peen and ego by trying to get a woman out of your league so you can drag her down to your basement level.