I'm very new to this space but so far I'm loving how unabashed and truly ruthless you women are! It's only been less than a week and I look forward to reading new posts every morning. I can't wait to get into the handbook!
I guess I just want to share my most recent and pressing frustration and that's with older men who try to shoot their shot with younger women.
Lately, I’ve been SO frustrated with the rhetoric/LIE that younger women want older men. I was at a local restaurant yesterday and the older men were just STARING and I hated it. Especially seeing as though my mother is 62, single and looking and her age mates delusionally believe they have a chance with me. Meanwhile a 40-something guy is chatting me up and I can tell that he USED to be hot but to me, this is still someone too old for me. I’m 29 and when Im out wearing loungewear or my gym clothes I get mistaken for 21 years old - teenagers still approach me thinking I’m their age mate. I can’t stand that young women are getting on the internet screaming about wanting a sugar daddy because it’s shifting the dynamic in a way that’s just not beneficial for women. I believe sex work is legitimate but most of these women are simply NOT true sex workers. At the same restaurant some late-50’s man offered to pay all my bills UNPROVOKED, it was actually quite insulting. It’s just so frustrating because my heart really hurts for my mom. Yes, I don’t want her to end up with a creepy old man either but I guess I have this false hope that if men were realistic about pursuing their equals, my mother and I wouldn’t have to remain single.