Justine Musk (the first wife) details her experience with Musk and how he changed following his success: https://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/a5380/millionaire-starter-wife/
Avoid men who even USED to be losers.
I mean the "nice guy" physically poor specimens with low self-esteem and decades of rising resentment or things to prove. A nice safe guy is probably how Musk presented previous to his success. A reminder that nice guys and settling for ugly because you feel it's safer is a trap and usually proves to be more of a risk. Ugly insecure men are also more apt to be emotionally abusive, feel a need to compensate by way of cheating, etc.
Ugly men are NOT the safer option. Lundy Bancroft tells us you become the new baseline.
I couldn't agree more! Men who used to be losers will make sure that all future women pay for his former loser status, even if his former loser status was caused by him!
If a man used to be unattractive and now has improved looks, he'll hurt women he couldn't get deliberately, to get back at the women he wanted and couldn't get. A popular example of this are pimpley, skinny nerds who wanted the pretty cheerleader in high school. His inability to get her stays with him forever, with his ego never recovering. Once his acne clears, he builds muscle in the gym and becomes taller, he'll hurt any woman that was like the cheerleader he couldn't get. Heck, he'll hurt any woman. Period.
Same thing with men who weren't financially where they wanted to be. When they achieve it, they will run through women like a steam train, leaving hurt women in their wake. He'll use his money to get women he could only dream of getting when he wasn't up there, money-wise.
Men hardly level up and remain or become humble, content, decent men. As most men are LV and NV, they only become worse when success comes their way.
I'm pretty sure Elon Musk still is a loser too. He doesn't even pay child support afaik, so from the perspectives of his ex wives he's basically broke.
EDIT: Oh man that conclusion though: "She is, by all accounts, a lovely, bright, and very young person, and better fitted to my ex-husband's lifestyle and personality than I ever was." No woman is suited to being told to dye their hair by their partner who's never around.
men don't have to do much to appear well-groomed so yeah, ugly losers can go to hell. women should never pander or pacify a fugface.
Elon told me, "I am the alpha in this relationship." , that's such a ridiculous thing to say 😂🤣
Elon made it clear that he did not want to talk about Nevada's death. I didn't understand this, just as he didn't understand why I grieved openly, which he regarded as "emotionally manipulative." what in the world.. your child just died you fucking psycho! 😡😤
I also developed a friendship that gradually deepened into romance with a man I'd known casually for years. One night he took me to a reading of Eve Ensler's new play. "This is power-woman central," he said, as we watched Arianna Huffington hold court in the front row. As he pointed out other prominent women in the audience, I realized the kind of social world I'd been living in: The females who populated it were the young wives and girlfriends of wealthy men, or the personal assistants who catered to them. Women disappeared after some point in their 30s, and any female ambition other than looking beautiful, shopping, and overseeing the domestic realm became an inconvenience.
Ya it’s a total myth that better looking men are worse. Some are womanizers but many of the men who know they have a lot going for them settle down and want to commit. They know they are attractive they don’t need Attention to validate themselves, they are already validated and want to spend time on the people that actually mean something to them. They, you know, care about their lives enough not to waste it on a bunch of people they have no feelings for just to appear cool to some other loser who has daddy issues. Men have the real daddy issues let me tell you.