His answers doesn't satisfy you?WALK. AWAY.His breath or body odor makes you nauseous?WALK. AWAY.His attitude and non-stop smug ass talking pisses you off?WALK. AWAY.He complains when you don't offer to pay half for the date?WALK. AWAY.You just plain don't like him (but you can't explain why, you just don't vibe with him)?WALK. AWAY.The date doesn't turn out to be as fun as you hoped?WALK. AWAY.And so on and so forth -- add your own. Learn to be more SWIFT with your rejection.Stop playing nice and wanting to "not hurt his feelings" -- you rejecting him gonna hurt his feelings anyway -- so the faster you cut to the chase, the better.Stop wasting time and dragging things -- he is going to view you in a bad light anyway (because you reject him, you evil woman!) -- so get up and get it done.Here's the thing;Do you like being treated like sh*t and sit in uncomfortableness?No?THEN WALK. AWAY.Just be the villain sis -- he is going to make you into one to his friends and social circle anyway.No amount of "damage control" you do can satisfy his offended ego anyway.Learn to be more ALLERGIC to things you dislike in that man and learn to be more knee-jerk in your walking-away-reaction. It is not your job to "document" how much of an asshole he is, and how many red flags he has.You just need a couple of minutes sitting down with that man -- you will know already whether he is an asshole or not;provided that you STOP projecting your idealistic fantasy on him, STOP gaslighting yourself on any discomfort you feel from him, and START observing, really observing the person in front of you.STOP "logicalizing" any off-ness you feel -- doesn't matter if you are being "paranoid" or "too guarded" or "distrustful" or whatever;Don't like sitting on that date with him? WALK. AWAY.It is not your job to PHD-research how much of an asshole he is -- won't make your life better anyway. Leave it to the professionals.Your job is to be concerned about your own safety and sanity, you reject any and every attempt at making you uncomfortable -- especially on a date.Courtship process should be fun, exciting, and comfortable -- and he SHOULD make you feel safe and secure ALL THE WAY. NOT feeling like you are walking on eggshells trying to dismantle a ticking time-bomb.Reject the idea that you somehow have to "suffer" during courtship process -- BECAUSE YOU SHOULD NOT. You should feel like you are being courted, NOT harassed or coerced or forced or exhausted trying to fight for his attention.Reject this stupid notion that women have to "suffer" in relationship -- because that is a disgusting patriarchal LIE.Why should you suffer while running yourself ragged trying to keep that man happy?What stupid bullsh*t is this? Just stop tormenting yourself, sis.Keep it simple.He fails to make you happy? Cool, WALK. AWAY. No matter at what point your relationship is.Really ask yourself just why are you letting yourself SUFFER just to be in this "relationship"? What will you get at the end of the day from this?Does he somehow treat you better after all your "sacrifices"?No?Then WALK. AWAY.Cut your losses NOW. WALK. AWAY.Stop worrying so much about being single and alone -- won't be any worse than the bullsh*t you are already dealing with anyway.Just WALK. AWAY.When is enough is enough for you?Stay safe, Stay WOMAN.