I need your opinions, ladies! So I'm in my late 20's and last year around this time, I started seeing a guy who was 30 years old. Over time, I learned that he had never been on a date before and that he had never even really spoken to women in any romantic setting. He was a virgin. I was his first date and all that. He had severe depression and anxiety issues and drank and ate a lot. He was in therapy and took medication to help him with his mental state. I knew very early on that it wasn't going to work out because I don't want to be a man's first anything, to be honest. I'm a CSA survivor and had to deal with more SA shit as a teenager and I'm honestly jaded when it comes to dating. The way he spoke about "us" it seemed like he thought we would get married and like he wouldn't have ever wanted to date anyone else. I knew that sooner or later, he'd want to date other women and I totally understood that. I broke things off after a few months because I felt like we were in very different stages of life and we had different visions about the future. I'm looking for a suit and tie, ambitious man and not someone who's into anime and video games. Am I right to think that a person in that situation would want the experience of dating more than one person? I felt bad for breaking up with him knowing his mental state but I couldn't handle the pressure of having to keep him healthy and alive while teaching him basic life skills.