this relates to a post I read by one of our mods rating to when a HMV will commit. Something interested me regarding the statement thaT HVM will be looking for the right woman in comparison to the L/NVM who will looking for the right TIME to commit and settle down. I asked my fiancé about the circumstances relating to him proposing to me (he has a job with his family bushiness which is very well known in my city and VERY successful but wants to launch his own business which is happening in the next month). I asked him if he felt pressured because a few of his friends has gotten married in the last year. And whether he was actually ready to look for a girlfriend when we got together.
his answer was ”no”. He DID NOT feel pressured because of his friend group at all. He was also not looking to have a girlfriend let alone a wife and be planning an expensive overseas wedding (the wedding of my dreams which he is handling alone because he is paying for it). He wanted to launch his OWN business. But our connection was too special to ignore he told me. he is still making good money working for the family full time and launching his own business in his free time. I hope this helps any of you ladies out there wondering if LVM ONLY settle down when it is convenient FOR THEM. He has also had long dry spells and few long term relationships.