He wants to pay for dates, call you, buy gifts for you, check on you, pay for your bills, supports you, listen to you, arrange everything for you, give you surprise presents, care for you when you are sick, cooks for you, arrange for nanny and maids, prepare for your financial security in case he is gone etc. etc.
So that you are comfortable, happy, healthy, content, safe, and thoroughly taken care of. He wants to -- because he loves you.
It is never about control, about power struggle, about him being "superior" in anyway, about using them so that you "have" to pay with your body -- any of those disgusting excuses used by disgusting men.
He wants to -- because he loves you. He is happy when you are happy -- so he naturally wants to keep doing things that makes you happy.
And you should be comfortable, happy, healthy, content, safe, and thoroughly taken care of by him that you feel enough, you don't feel like asking for anything anymore -- but he manages to keep surprising and impressing you and make you feel even happier.
And as the family grows and you have children -- he will be the same to them and he manages to impress you even more because now you see him in action not only as a husband, but as a father. And you couldn't ask for a better father than them for your children.
And you are happy. And he is happy because you are happy. And your children are happy because their parents is happy. That's how you create a happy family.
If the man you are currently dealing with can't give you that -- cut him off. STOP ENTERTAINING TRASH. Stop wasting your time. Stop hurting your feelings and crying into the pillow for a dude who can't even text properly. VALUE YOUR TIME AND YOUR STANDARDS.
BECOME EXCLUSIVE AND LIMITED-EDITION. Only allow the best of the best, the cream of the crop, the genuine HVM who thoroughly and undoubtedly proven himself to keep your attention.
"But why do you think he does this and--" WHO TF CARES, TRASH. You can either keep pondering, wondering, analyzing, logicalizing, asking why a shitty man is acting shitty -- or you can keep busy levelling up and leave the trash where it belong -- in the damn trashcan.