It ended up with him literally wanting every free second of my time when I didn’t have my kids or when I wasn’t at work. It was smothering and he didn’t understand that during the week I needed time to do my personal shit like run errands or just clean my damn house after my kids went to their dad’s.
Yeah I finally figured out that he had no male friends, and with a little snooping online I figured out that all his “friends” were women aka supply. I broke it off with him on Monday because I ended up finding out that his ex who he was with 1-2 months before me is pregnant and the rumor going around is that it’s his. Oh and apparently it’s my fault he’s been keeping it a secret for the last 2 weeks. Classic narc behavior.
Yep. They were arseholes or useless communicators - the type to barely message but then complain they were lonely 🤔 they want effort from you without putting in any themselves.
Also, some lied and had other friends - usually other scrotes or women.
One guy was shit talking me to my bosses and trying to get me fired behind my back while shaking me down for favors to my face. A whole year of this and I had no idea.
I don't give losers the time of day anymore. They don't deserve it and they only stab you in the back.
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Aug 07, 2023
Some men do not have any/many friends by choice. They are extreme introverts who prefer to spend the vast majority of their lives by themselves. They protect their solitude fiercely.
If you're looking for a platonic, casual acquaintance, this sort of man might be a good match.
But most women on FDS are looking for a committed romantic partner; for obvious reasons, the friendless scrote is a big red flag.
- complained that I had friends and "why don't I have friends? Why do you have friends?" Tried gaslighting me into believing I don't have friends.
- literally begged for all of my free time, called me every night just to complain about something stupid, I couldn't even enjoy the new Pokemon game that came out because id just play that while he bitched on the phone, now I still have it and I can't even look at it.
- talked a lot about Jews? Like every topic would come back to Jews, it was like he was on a constant dumb as rocks mind loop, tying back environmentalism to Jews , even food to Jews, I was like...what? Then he'd call me an idiot for not agreeing with him.
- he'd blame the actions of rich people on women for procreating with them.
Another loser I dated listened to classic rock/country. Emotionally abused everyone. Insecure. Also talked about Jews.
I just wanted to bang idfk where the Jew shit came from, it was so annoying because I'm educated enough to not agree with them but they still took hours of my days away bitching and moaning about EVERYTHING. It was exhausting.
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Aug 08, 2023
My theory is this: men are designed to bond over warfare and enslaving others. Women are meant to communally bond. When you throw men into society and tell them they should be communally bonding over feelings and shared experiences that don't involve violence or domination, they don't know what to do and feel empty inside - and they should. Men aren't supposed to be around society unless you want that society to be intensely hierarchical and violence-based.
It ended up with him literally wanting every free second of my time when I didn’t have my kids or when I wasn’t at work. It was smothering and he didn’t understand that during the week I needed time to do my personal shit like run errands or just clean my damn house after my kids went to their dad’s.
Yeah I finally figured out that he had no male friends, and with a little snooping online I figured out that all his “friends” were women aka supply. I broke it off with him on Monday because I ended up finding out that his ex who he was with 1-2 months before me is pregnant and the rumor going around is that it’s his. Oh and apparently it’s my fault he’s been keeping it a secret for the last 2 weeks. Classic narc behavior.
Yep. They were arseholes or useless communicators - the type to barely message but then complain they were lonely 🤔 they want effort from you without putting in any themselves.
Also, some lied and had other friends - usually other scrotes or women.
Some men do not have any/many friends by choice. They are extreme introverts who prefer to spend the vast majority of their lives by themselves. They protect their solitude fiercely.
If you're looking for a platonic, casual acquaintance, this sort of man might be a good match.
But most women on FDS are looking for a committed romantic partner; for obvious reasons, the friendless scrote is a big red flag.
He stalked me.
Kept trying to get me to go on a date with him.
He was pornsick, whiny and had a victim mentality. He was super clingy and wouldn't leave me alone.
I wish I had kept the crazy email he wrote me.
I found out he is the reason why he doesn't have many friends, He had a few friends but no longer deal with him and he never went into detail why.
- he was a douche, even to service people.
- wanted every minute of my free time.
- complained that I had friends and "why don't I have friends? Why do you have friends?" Tried gaslighting me into believing I don't have friends.
- literally begged for all of my free time, called me every night just to complain about something stupid, I couldn't even enjoy the new Pokemon game that came out because id just play that while he bitched on the phone, now I still have it and I can't even look at it.
- talked a lot about Jews? Like every topic would come back to Jews, it was like he was on a constant dumb as rocks mind loop, tying back environmentalism to Jews , even food to Jews, I was like...what? Then he'd call me an idiot for not agreeing with him.
- he'd blame the actions of rich people on women for procreating with them.
Another loser I dated listened to classic rock/country. Emotionally abused everyone. Insecure. Also talked about Jews.
I just wanted to bang idfk where the Jew shit came from, it was so annoying because I'm educated enough to not agree with them but they still took hours of my days away bitching and moaning about EVERYTHING. It was exhausting.
My theory is this: men are designed to bond over warfare and enslaving others. Women are meant to communally bond. When you throw men into society and tell them they should be communally bonding over feelings and shared experiences that don't involve violence or domination, they don't know what to do and feel empty inside - and they should. Men aren't supposed to be around society unless you want that society to be intensely hierarchical and violence-based.