I logged back into an old OKC account that I haven't used in years out of curiosity. Even at middle age, most of the men on there are self professed liberal "feminist" bros looking for casual sex, "ENM" relationships and kink. One guy's ad had multiple photos of him performing shibari rope on women and one pic of him proudly holding a sign that says he is aroused by the pain of others. 🤮.
This was gross in my 20s and 30s and at my 40s, I find them downright repugnant.
Also found the ad of a guy I briefly dated 8 years ago. He's closing in on 50 and wants kids. 🙄 OKC was always LVM central and it hasn't changed with time or age.