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-I read a profile that said "The problem with online dating is that its full of girls on online dating"- made me think what they think of girls on OLD- easy/slutty, not serious, desperate, somethings wrong with them if they have to resort to OLD.
-... and its full of guys on there- and how I feel about guys being on there- desperate(why?), players, looking for hookups etc
-The implications of meeting on a place where you feel like that about the people on there.
-95% of guys on there dont seem that great
-And if they seem good, its a bit suspicious(theyre probably weird irl, hiding something etc) and they probably feel similarly too
-Everyone knows its not the ideal way/first choice way to meet- and the implications of that- less special, less respect, less serious?
-Less respect for the person because you met them on OLD?
-Its a bit cringe/indignified to be on there(seeing someone you know on there is a bit funny, telling people feels a bit embarrassing)
-Just a bit indignified/desperate 1: to be on OLD and 2: to be actively (and so publicly)seeking a person in general maybe
-The lamborghini thing(dont advertise on TV because target audience isnt sat watching TV)
- A catalog of people- kind of dehumanising and porny. Bit icky to think of guys just swiping on me along with loads of other girls
-Forces you to be shallow because its all on paper and so is impossible to go by anything else(i'm being judged shallowly by a load of guys, and I only see the surface of them)
-Only seeing the surface takes away so much of it all, especially the things that can create attraction(way they carry themselves, speak, manner etc)
-Since I rarely find men attractive, usually its the "je ne sais quoi" that attracts me to them and theres none of that on OLD
-Likely swipe no on people you'd like in real life, and yes to people you wouldnt
-Also no atmosphere, romance, suspense, subtlety, excitement
-Never really know what youre gonna get- from their profile lying, to just imagining/expecting them to be differently
-Even if you would have found each other attractive if met IRL, if you expected something else, you might be disappointed
-Having to go out and sit on an awkward date when you first see them IRL and know its an instant no
-Even if you have met someone you like, youre competing with a whole catelog of other options and potential quick sex
This was just a quick brainstorm of all the reasons to not use OLD... feel free to add!
On old most men are cheap and act like Coffee and a bagel is enough to sleep with you.