The title refers to how hard it is to find a decent man that has a genuine interest in a woman; interest that isn’t too little or too much.
Men either have zero interest in a woman (which doesn’t stop them from using her for sex, attention, a place to stay, etc.) or they have a warped type of “interest” (which isn't real interest) that is intense, obsessive and possessive. The type of interest that is the "if I can't have you, nobody can" or "I don't want you but don't want you to go anywhere or be with anyone else" type.
Finding a man whose interest is sincere, genuine, healthy and not all-consuming, real, natural and long-standing is very very rare. If most men's interest in women included all the traits I just stated, then ghosting randomly, breadcrumbing, leaving sick girlfriends/wives and other cruel types of treatment women suffer at the hands of men would either exist to a small degree or not at all.
I just randomly thought of this today and even though this behavioural trait of theirs is obvious, it's something I just wanted to rant and write about.