This might seem like a weird question but I genuinely think I dont understand this concept. I have always had an interest in being in a relationship but for some reason the „I just wanna be loved“ reason was never one of my own. The only reason I want to date/get married is out of fun. I just think its a good time.
It is obviously a privileged perspective because there are many more serious reasons for it but deep down this is mine. I dont care much for the being loved aspect of it or maybe I dont understand what it means exactly?
I think its the reason I didnt fall into many of mens traps where they use love bombing and similar methods. I just find it a little ridiculous. This is of course no shame to my women who do believe it and want to believe it, manipulation comes in all forms and nobody is safe from it, I have plenty weaknesses.
I want to ask if anybody here feels the same way or if you dont, could you describe the feeling you feel and if you think it has to do with unhealed wounds or if it comes naturally to you? This might even be a dumb post honestly! I just havent talked to anyone who felt the same yet, so I am curious.