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Hello Queens!!
It’s time for our Sunday reflections.
This is a dedicated post each week reflecting on how our last week goals went.
Please feel to talk about the following:
Reflect on how it went with working on your goals
Your “win” for the week
Your “speed bump/challenge” this past week (relating to goal or not)
Strategy(s) to address challenges/goal
Stay tuned for tomorrow (Mondays) post where we can list our updated/new goals for the week ☺️
Update on goals
1) research project
- my group and I made made plans on the timelines and headways on what we want complete
2) Date
- I had my first date since joining FDS in March. Overall, I had a good time, he was funny and I surprisingly laughed authentically at his jokes.
- He paid and I never saw the bill. I’m not even remotely sure how much it all cost as I as I know the restaurant is the top in the city (very expensive) and he was very generous with wanting me to try and eat some much different food.
- He would ask what things I liked and I would tell him and he would order for both of us.
- he asked me alot of interesting questions
- at the end of the date, he asked me how far I parked and asked if it was okay that he walks me back to my car. I said yes.
- during the walk, he thanked me for connecting and said he is really happy to have met me and he had a wonderful time. I thanked him for the experience, told him he chose a lovely restaurant and the food was delicious and I had a good time too. He said he’d love to have date again if I’d like too. I said “yeah that sounds good”. We’ll see you what happens with that.
- we did not touch at all during the date. I don’t want to be touched at all in the early stages and he was following my non verbal cues. He did show me a scar on his hand though from a story he was telling me and we leaned into the table and that was the closest we were as well as we walked side by side to my car
- overall it was good and I’m proud of myself for how I was throughout the date. I felt comfortable in my skin and I did not feel the need to impress him. I was watching to see if he would impress me. We’ll see where this goes but I’m in the Motto that “ a man comes into your life for a reason, a season or a life time”. So I’m excited to keep building self-love and compassion and building an abundant life with or without a man ❤️
- I'm geting closer to my weekly goals and studying much better. - improved my form during workout and my elbow has been so much better. -stood up to my flatmate for some things she has been pushing onto me which are her responsibilities. Also have a solution where I won't be sharing responsibilities whether she likes it or not.