I'm talking about pregnancy scares. Now I might sound weird, since I'm currently in a relationship, but that's exactly the reason I'm writing this. I've went through a couple of scares at this point (usually me freaking out because my period hasn't come in time), and let me tell you that's unbelievably stressful. Even after one takes a pregnancy test and gets a negative result, it still has a margin of error. At that point there's nothing much else one can do except hope for the next period to come, which especially in my case is pretty irregular since I eat very little. The constant stressing about whether you're pregnant or not sucks, and this is probably one of the biggest downsides in not being celibate. When you're single, it's just so liberating and peaceful knowing at 100% certainty that there isn't a human growing inside of you.
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That's why I don't believe in premarital seggs. I don't want kids but at least then you know he'll care for me.