I'm talking about pregnancy scares. Now I might sound weird, since I'm currently in a relationship, but that's exactly the reason I'm writing this. I've went through a couple of scares at this point (usually me freaking out because my period hasn't come in time), and let me tell you that's unbelievably stressful. Even after one takes a pregnancy test and gets a negative result, it still has a margin of error. At that point there's nothing much else one can do except hope for the next period to come, which especially in my case is pretty irregular since I eat very little. The constant stressing about whether you're pregnant or not sucks, and this is probably one of the biggest downsides in not being celibate. When you're single, it's just so liberating and peaceful knowing at 100% certainty that there isn't a human growing inside of you.
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Agreed! Even though I’m in my 30s I still view pregnancy as a teenager: it will destroy your life. I want absolutely no part of it lol
I've had guys ask me out on dates, and then casually mention with sinister tones that abortion is illegal now. I've had guys say they just hate the way condoms feel, and I had to actively stop a guy from trying to stealth me. Our livelihoods mean nothing to men. This guy that tried that, I'm going to report him for abusing his dog. I imagined myself throwing rocks at him, and he came up to me three weeks later and told me a woman was throwing rocks at him. Everything is just kind of connected. :/
That's why I don't believe in premarital seggs. I don't want kids but at least then you know he'll care for me.
The ones who are more likely to kill, molest and rob you from you are the husband or male relatives. I followed ppl who make good diy's but then they made a lifestream about why mothers should stay at home. Absolutely disgusting. So I asked them when the video will arrive wher you will tell men to be better fathers? Because the reason why women work is because of losers like them with their 50/50 and coffee dates.
Please eat enough and healthy
if you're so scared why keep rolling the dice? sounds like you're just waiting on it at this point