I would consider myself established since I have a job, car, and a roof over my head. In addition, I pay my own bills, so I consider myself to be independent. In terms of education, I just finished grad school. I've spent most of my years in grad school alone as I needed to focus, and I was comfortable doing activities on my own as my friends and I were at different points in our lives. I'm really comfortable being alone and enjoy it.
Society is pressuring me to settle down. But this question keeps lingering. People keep telling me that I need to be dependent of someone. However, I question what a man can provide for me that I don't already do for myself.
Most men are LV. A relationship is more likely to create more problems in your life than bring happiness.