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So a few years back I was acquainted with this guy from Discord. We were online friends and would bond over liking the same games and musical artists. He seemed like the typical "nice" introverted guy so I thought he was cool. But then he started sending memes about how fat ugly women only want 6 foot chads, how women are catty and scare him, and how most girls are shallow boring and obsessed with fashion and make-up. While idolizing goth girls (okay they look cool but isn't that the subculture that thrives on unique fashion and make-up?).
I endured this because I felt sorry for him even though I wasn't attracted or trying to date him. He didn't know I was a girl. One day I got tired and ghosted him. Sure he was a teenager at the time and told me he had an emotionally abusive father, but it is sad and bleak to think this is the honest truth of how a lot of men in my generation see me and my female peers. It's not that I want to give up on any form of interaction with men forever (realistically, I literally can't), but I have started to feel that with every "honest" point-of-view I hear from men online the more I felt assured that studying more and decentering men is something you will never regret doing.
So what's the take-away? Find a man who hates male abusers and creepy famous men and the porn industry as much as they hate young girls who like Taylor Swift or middle-aged women who like anything. 🙄
My man isn’t crazy about taylor swift, but when I saw her in concert last year he still wanted to hear all about it and was glad I had a good time. Same with him and his music. The huge difference of being sith a scrote vs a hvm is that he’s literally just respectful. It’s insane how far that goes in how happy we both are together, but even tho my man and I are 95% compatible we still have differences and we are respectful towards them. A scrote would make fun of me or neg me about my interests, but my bf doesn’t. He’s not a fan of taylor swift but he’s not going to antagonize me about it and is even supportive of my opinions. He’s not a big fan of sewing but he fixed my sewing machine. It’s really just the small things that make up the foundation of a healthy, happy relationship.
I wish there were more good men out there. But there aren’t. I wish it wasn’t hard to find guys who treat women respectfully and like true partners. But it is. Most women are just gonna have to be single. There are still pickmes for the scrotes and they’ll go around traumatizing each other, but the vast majority of us are gonna be single simply because not enough men are quality partners. It sucks.
It took me dozens of boyfriends and hundreds of dates to find my current boyfriend and he’s been nothing but amazing for literally over a year now. We just keep falling deeper in love and if we break up I’ll treasure this time we got together for a long time. I’m so happy with him. We still have conflicts and disagree, neither of us are doormats and we’re quite independent people who feel strongly about things. We are bound to butt heads on some things, but our arguments tend to still end up with us both feeling respected and able to communicate with each other. There’s a LOT of negotiation that goes into creating a life together. Especially when two independent individuals with their own property, assets, finances, and lives try to merge them together. There’s bound to be growing pains in even the best relationships.
The saddest reality is that your quality of life lowers if you want kids. Single or not. So just be aware of that.
HES a red pilled scrote, most men are nowhere days. I’m a virgin woman - and I will probally die a virgin at this point. These men are not worth your time, genuinely. They ARE demons in human form.