idk if anyone else had this experience but I’ve noticed a lot of women are pick mes. I realized at a young age too. From girls in school comparing their skin tone and hair texture to mine (i’m a dark skinned black woman), from my own mother talk about attributes that men like in women (long hair, skin color, body type etc), also other girls around my ages always obsessing over guys and being bit crazy and competing with you looks wise. Even with some ”friends” , when they get boyfriends they disappear and don’t hang with you unless their relationship is having issues. I’ve had a recent experience with my roommates and we went out bar hopping and clubbing and they were being hardcore pick mes for guys and competing for attention(one has a bf) and i just stood to the side and walked away. I also had a “friend” say that she wished her ass was like mine and I told her I don’t care for it because it’s always sexual attention and men not respecting me and only wanting me for my body, and she said something along the lines of how she’s lucky she doesn’t have those problems and guys like her for her and not because of her body and how her face is cute etc. I just don’t care about being attractive for men and finding a bf. I’m about to be 21 I have other things to worry about. Plus I realized most men are just misogynistic and not good people.