We were in undergrad together and she was my neighbor. When you think of the types of HVW you want in your life, it was absolutely her you are picturing. I remember she used to send guys out of her apartment (who thought they were about to get laid) if they couldn't present her with recent STD pap

Nothing has ever exhausted me more than men have. I know manipulative and abusive men I've dated were especially tiring, but I feel like all men are so chaotic and tiring... I only recently learned that women need more sleep than men.... I am 39!!! Even my best boyfriends insisted on holidays wher

If you have a paying job, hold onto it for dear life. I was faced with either sleeping in my car and cutting contact immediately with my toxic narcissistic parents trying to put me in the middle of their marriage/communication problem or calling an ex-scrotes that I long ago broke up with, I have

Recently, I went to a government agency because they had my information wrong. The customer service representative refused to investigate and insisted that my information was correct. I had to keep repeating myself and pushing the rep to consider other methods. I wasn’t rude or disrespectful. I simp

I'm tired of how Buddhism is placed on a pedestal despite its issues with misogyny. I always say, never idolize men. You can take their ideas and advice if you find it helpful; I do it, but I don't idolize or defend them. POST

When was your last dental cleaning? Asking that question alone will tell you everything you need to know about his health. If you’re going to get in a relationship with a man, I believe that if you value your health, you should make him take an oral microbiome test. Real empowerment is about prot

How do y’all not see it’s a troll? It’s 99.99% an incel trying to mock fds. I have no idea what they’re trying to accomplish. I’m guessing it’s somewhere along the lines of “hehe look how ebil fds women steal from men. Those gold diggers and they want to date up even if they’re low value and ugly wo

A male acquaintance expressed interest in dating me. While expressing this interest, he felt that it was necessary to reassure me that he wasn’t a “player” who was sleeping with different women every weekend. Ladies, this man is middle aged, bald, extremely obese, an alcoholic, and a self-described

So I tried OLD again and I’ve been getting overwhelmed by talking to more than one person at a time. I usually pick one person that I like and I’m not sure if that’s the issue. I still talk to a couple others but then if I don’t answer them within a couple hours, I’ve gotten blocked before. And then

I just need to rant about my mother. For awhile, she's been putting her 2 cents in about relationships and trying to be someones low budget matchmaker. She has this weird idea that certain women on whatever the subject of a conversation are "missing out" by not choosing to stay with whatever scrot

Really sick of everyone lately and I’m in hibernation mode. Don’t have anyone to tell this other than you ladies here. I’m just so sick of feeling alone. My friends/family are crap, going through empty nest situation and I’m financially struggling. My ex doesn’t contribute towards his child either i

Men will cry about gold diggers and what a woman can bring to the table yet ALL men, maybe the rare 1% of men out there, don’t add any value to a woman’s life; instead, they take and whine. Even pickmes add value to a man’s life. The amount of pickmes I have seen who have FWB or hook up with men en

It's not just something I see from men on dating apps, I definitely see people saying this in other contexts too, although I often see it on men's OLD profiles. Small talk is how you learn little details about people. And maybe I'm just not really sure what types of conversation people are expectin

For Christ’s sake, stop texting me. I hate long drawn out text conversations. I’m busy. I’m working. I’m reading. Walking the dogs. Living my life. I’m not on my phone I was told women were the stereotypical “text all day everyday”, “head stuck in their phones”, “constantly need attention” types.

I have seen it many times now, women will come to the forum asking for advice that could’ve been solved in under a minute.  I’m not against asking for advice on the forum, but it’s like half of you don’t stop and reflect on what you wrote or even go through the FDS subreddit. You’re not as importa

Women are so often scolded for not being emotional punching bags for others, especially men, because our own mental and emotional needs occasionally take priority (gasp!). It's super telling that women have often complained about men trauma dumping on them, rarely the other way around (beca

Maybe it’s because I’m from a country where English is not the first language, but seeing scrotes taking credit just for ejaculating into a woman seems so… weird to me. Like, sir, you’re nothing but a glorified sperm donor? Yet couples would announce the pregnancy like “we’re pregnant 😍” where wome

Kids- Why in the everloving fuck does ANYONE wants kids? Unless you are 10%(?) of the population with thriving finances and a big, loving, intelligent, highly evolved family? Even with all that, you are putting blinders on because there is no hope for the planet environmentally. We are way past the

It’s interesting to hear males say “you can’t have it both ways” in regards to feminism/having “equal” rights in society while also having a man financially treat you well. Men have had it both ways for decades. Having a dual income while their fulltime working wife/gf does all of the cooking and

I went out to a concert recently by myself. Could I have found a friend to come with me? Sure. Sometimes I just prefer to do things on my own - shocking! Nothing against any of my friends. I go and enjoy the show, and as I'm leaving, a guy comes up to me and strikes up some conversation. At first i

The radical feminist community on Tumblr, FDS, Ovarit, r/herspace, and r/fourthwavewomen are the few places online that are real women-only spaces.  Everything else is invaded by men. I collected some posts from the radical feminist community on Tumblr that are shareworthy.

Or just blatant incompetence. I made my little brother breakfast because my mom will forget and then ask me to do it. Which is a whole problem on its own. She wouldn't teach him to be independent, wouldn't let me teach back then. And now that he's older and not doing anything, she's suddenly okay w

I'm bringing this up so women here who may not know about it can become aware. Here's the article:  https://www.iflscience.com/theres-a-really-creepy-reason-why-women-mainly-give-birth-lying-down-64107 It is sometimes credited to Louis because he "enjoyed watching women giving birth, he became fru

I downloaded Tinder a month ago, but not for dating but for observing. I have no reason to interact with any of them because whenever I used dating apps in the past, it was constant threats, mocking, and insults. My profile photo was a photo of an eyeball and yes, I got 8 likes, but this shouldn’t

I noticed there's 4 types of women I come across: Some women I know are in the early stages of dating - enthusiastically accepting walk "dates" followed by movie dates or some other low effort excuse for a date. They use OLD like hinge. They are shocked when they get ghosted. Other women are dat

Men are consumers, destroyers, parasites, and invasive. Men’s gametes are contaminated and defective by default. Yes, all men. It is ingrained in their biology. Men were never meant to love anything. Men hate themselves and spread their hate towards women and everything around them. They were ne

Acquaintances? Maybe. Friends. No. This Reddit post popped up on my feed, and these comments highlight exactly how men view women they call "friends," in my opinion. Post

This is something I noticed in a lot of online places: men will use the words “the wife” or “wife” and rarely “my wife.”  Like their wife is a product and not an actual person. The car stopped working. The wife stopped working. Wife likes to eat pancakes. Why not write my wife? This makes it feel

I just walked through my city to get home, and within a span of 10 steps I see: 1. A young man piss in the bushes and zip up with his unwashed hands - completely unabashed as I made eye contact and gave him a disgusted look. 2. A slick salesman from an elektronics store spit on the ground as he go

I used to think I wasn’t good at interviewing people for roles. During interviews I sat in at, I was never really impressed with the candidates and had a hard time assessing whether they’d be a good fit. Even though many of them were hired (not as a result of my choice), I stayed lukewarm about thei