I don't think we dislike men up until certain age. But when men start to feel entitled to our bodies, this is where we start to hate them. I remember vividly the day I started to be digusted by men, I was not even 13, with already developed breasts and hiding them under oversized sweater. It was sunny, spring day and dude around twice my age told me it would be nice I took it off because it's a pity such beautoful boobs aren't on display. I felt raped.
Together with my mother oversexualizing me from early age, these are the things that can be blamed on my long journey of eating disorders, people pleasing, getting career in male domintaed field to prove I can be eaqul to them.
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Feb 09
Men and women are both conditioned to view one man, one woman, heterosexual marriage as the norm.
Love isn't even supposed to be that sexual.
We are in a fake environment.
If I hadn't been raised Christian, with hetero romance novels and Disney movies, I'd probably have felt more comfortable with the genuine crushes I had on other girls growing up - which would have led to way better relationships than the ones I did or mostly didn't form with males.
They don't need to be screaming crap at our faces to be conditioning us.
Only loser men are this way. Remember you're on reddit a place easily accessible to immature men imo
I don't think we dislike men up until certain age. But when men start to feel entitled to our bodies, this is where we start to hate them. I remember vividly the day I started to be digusted by men, I was not even 13, with already developed breasts and hiding them under oversized sweater. It was sunny, spring day and dude around twice my age told me it would be nice I took it off because it's a pity such beautoful boobs aren't on display. I felt raped.
Together with my mother oversexualizing me from early age, these are the things that can be blamed on my long journey of eating disorders, people pleasing, getting career in male domintaed field to prove I can be eaqul to them.
Men and women are both conditioned to view one man, one woman, heterosexual marriage as the norm.
Love isn't even supposed to be that sexual.
We are in a fake environment.
If I hadn't been raised Christian, with hetero romance novels and Disney movies, I'd probably have felt more comfortable with the genuine crushes I had on other girls growing up - which would have led to way better relationships than the ones I did or mostly didn't form with males.
They don't need to be screaming crap at our faces to be conditioning us.