I believe women should stop fearing the label 'Selfish' or 'Gold Digger'

Because selfish is what they call a woman who doesn't put others first in her own life, and a Gold digger when she doesn't settle for 50/50 manlets.

As Barbie in the Scrooch retelling said, " In a Selfish world, only the selfish ones survive. "

And the selfless ones will always hold onto the shortest end of the stick, giving users the best of both worlds because they would never cut themselves short for a doormat.

I've never seen a gold digger with a black eye, never have I seen one leading a horrid/broke life, wipe tears away in her car, nor did I ever see women like that complaining about how the baby daddy sucks and they get no help in the household as much as women who chose for love or 'Balance'

Because the Gold digger only values wealth and depart from men after they cease be useful.

If my Mother was a gold digger, she would have received wealth from a much older man who wanted to leave her money and property on her name, She feared being called a gold digger so she let that opportunity go, but she settled for a scrote, who is stingy, divorced and pretty much operated as a lazy roommate and unfortunately that ended up as my Father.

I could have ended up like my mother as I didn't grow up with influencers like Shera Seven, and was taught that love is the only thing that matters but thankfully, I find the human male extremely annoying in general, and I couldn't imagine being stuck with them for years.

They always invade my space or spam cute nicknames until I tell them to stop, or they touch my shoulder to signal they like me. I always stayed away from them unless I really liked a person and 9 out of 10 that was not the case.

To wrap this post up: Choose love, and sorrow will choose you, affecting everyone who depends on you like your children or your pets.

Choose money,and a good life chooses you, automatically increasing the quality of life for those who depend on you.

So what if you only value what benefits you? So what if others think you are a shameless gold digger? What's worse than ending up rock bottom because a man screwed you over?

You're going to get blamed anyway as a woman so It's better to act accordingly and be selfish.