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Because selfish is what they call a woman who doesn't put others first in her own life, and a Gold digger when she doesn't settle for 50/50 manlets.
As Barbie in the Scrooch retelling said, " In a Selfish world, only the selfish ones survive. "
And the selfless ones will always hold onto the shortest end of the stick, giving users the best of both worlds because they would never cut themselves short for a doormat.
I've never seen a gold digger with a black eye, never have I seen one leading a horrid/broke life, wipe tears away in her car, nor did I ever see women like that complaining about how the baby daddy sucks and they get no help in the household as much as women who chose for love or 'Balance'
Because the Gold digger only values wealth and depart from men after they cease be useful.
If my Mother was a gold digger, she would have received wealth from a much older man who wanted to leave her money and property on her name, She feared being called a gold digger so she let that opportunity go, but she settled for a scrote, who is stingy, divorced and pretty much operated as a lazy roommate and unfortunately that ended up as my Father.
I could have ended up like my mother as I didn't grow up with influencers like Shera Seven, and was taught that love is the only thing that matters but thankfully, I find the human male extremely annoying in general, and I couldn't imagine being stuck with them for years.
They always invade my space or spam cute nicknames until I tell them to stop, or they touch my shoulder to signal they like me. I always stayed away from them unless I really liked a person and 9 out of 10 that was not the case.
To wrap this post up: Choose love, and sorrow will choose you, affecting everyone who depends on you like your children or your pets.
Choose money,and a good life chooses you, automatically increasing the quality of life for those who depend on you.
So what if you only value what benefits you? So what if others think you are a shameless gold digger? What's worse than ending up rock bottom because a man screwed you over?
You're going to get blamed anyway as a woman so It's better to act accordingly and be selfish.
The men who shame women for wanting to date financially stable men want to date "stacies" themselves. Just look at how they follow tons of Instagram models. They think it's ok for them to have standards yet shame women for having standards.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to date a financially stable guy. If a guy is struggling to feed himself, then he has priorities to fix before dating. Dating a guy less wealthy than you also rarely ends well. He'll either resent you for earning more than him or financially leech off you.
It's not really about being selfish but why date when a guy adds no value to your life? You're better off by yourself.
Awesome post! And so many good quotes to take from it. Choose love and SORROW chooses you. Choose MONEY, and a good life chooses you!
And can you imagine female birds or any other female animals out here choosing a mate based on feelings? Nah, they choose the ones who can provide the best shelter because it is a matter of life or death for them if they don't.
So why are human women expected to choose a guy who will land us in a dangerous trailer park, broke and destitute? A guy who can't provide a nice, safe vehicle for you to travel in?
While we may not end up dead over that bad choice as quickly as it happens in nature in animals, you will develop health issues from poor diet and high stress. You will be worried constantly about how to make ends meet. You will not be able to afford the things in life that keep you healthy, happy, and mentally sane. And due to all of this, yeah it's highly possible you get killed and/or die earlier with a faulty vehicle, unsafe living situation, stress that builds up...
Every other creature on earth (including men) gets to value only what benefits them except for human women. LOL, we are expected to be endlessly understanding and date hoboes out of the kindness of our womanly souls and hearts. HAHA, miss me with that!
And that last line hits SO hard. They will call you a gold digger anyway, even when you could give a crap less about their actual income and think you are in love - ask me how I know! No need to play a martyr or nice girl, they will never let you be one anyway. Get that $$$ and get that stress free life, instead.
Yes, both rich and poor men will disappoint you so might as well go for rich (or at least let's face it in this world, stable). I've been hurt by guys that had money but at least I didn't feel dumb too like when I've been swindled by brokies.