I've been business associates with a couple ladies for about three years now. We recently went out for drinks in a casual setting. We got on the subject of relationships. They're married.
I said I was single because there are no men I'm attracted to. One of the women said, "Oh so you're asexual." I explained that no, I'm just sexually attracted to particular men.
She asked me to describe attractive men. I said tall with muscles and takes care of themselves. That is literally as far as I got when they scoffed at me. One of them said, "Oh so like an elven prince." She was saying I was ordering up a fantasy man by asking for tall, muscles, and takes care of himself!
And I have seen their men! No thank you! Gross! Why is the bar in hell!
Well I'm an elven princess so yeah 🙊
lmfaaaooo I'm so glad moids I've dated at least looked very good. It was the main boundary my pick me self at least miraculously mustered.
Not every girl is going to have the confidence to talk to them either so it's actually not that hard to date a hot guy if you're hot yourself and have social skills tbh.