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Scrote #1: A good friend of mine (let's call her Jenny) from high school was telling me how she met and became friends with a guy (let's call him Frank) that lives in the same building as her.
Pretty much right off the bat, he would make sexual innuendos which then proceeded to him holding her by the waist one time she was walking with him to his apartment. She told him, countless times, that she wasn't interested in him to which he would say that he understood, yet would then proceeded to do more. Once, she told me that she was walking to the door of their building, to exit it with him and he stroked her arm then touched the small of her back. When he started to physically touch her which began after he would randomly make sexual jokes, she would always recoil from him but he never seemed to get the message.
After a good amount of time, Frank brings up in conversation how he's getting MARRIED soon and proceeded to invite her to the wedding! Jenny was shocked that a guy that had been so inappropriate and acted single was actually engaged to be married! She told me how shocked she was because he had never mentioned that he was seeing anyone and never spoke about him dating anyone, let alone him having a fiancée.
Scrote #2: Frank has a friend, who is a scrote himself. This guy (let's call him Sam) also lived in the same building as her but has since moved out. Jenny was talking to a friend she made in the building (let's call her Mimi). They were talking in Mimi's apartment and had the door open when Sam walked by and Mimi called out to him to say hello. Jenny told me how he had no interest in talking to Mimi and quickly responded in a less than enthusiastic way and went into his apartment. She told me Mimi had a clear crush on him, which Mimi always denied meanwhile, Mimi was always trying to talk to him and get his attention but Sam just never seemed interested.
Jenny then tells me how Mimi invited Sam, her (Jenny) and some other friends to dinner. Sam offered to pay for the meal after everyone was done and Jenny thanked him. For some odd reason, he had an attitude with her. I can't remember why exactly but it was somewhere along the lines of him being insulted that she thanked him for being a gentleman which I guess, he believed, he was; so to him, he didn't understand why she was thanking him. She, just like me, couldn't understand why he wasn't flattered but was instead, irritated.
After the dinner, anytime he'd see Jenny, he'd say hello and walk by her when they'd see in and around the building but always kept to himself. I forget how they started to become close but they started to talk more and then became friends. He disclosed how he had a girlfriend but would subtly flirt with Jenny here and there. After some time, he told her that he and his girlfriend had broken up and that it was for the best.
Some time into their friendship, he invited Jenny over to his apartment to watch a movie. They sat, watching it, on his sofa. They talked while watching and he made his move; he turned to kiss her, which she reciprocated because she had started to like him and crushed on him hard. He then suddenly pulled away, panicked and started to say that they would never work as he's really busy with work and they have an age difference of 4 years. Jenny was confused by all this because 1) he already knew how busy he was with work and 2) he knew her age before that day. After his panicked rant, they finished watching the movie, with awkward tension lingering in the air and she left his apartment.
She then told me that before and after he moved out of her building to move to another place closer to his office, he had started to pull away. They made plans to watch something together and he completely ghosted her. She's never heard from him since and told me she has an intuitive feeling that he went back to his ex who he apparently would talk about from time to time with her.
Lesson to be learned: Once again, these instances show us that men really can't be our friends and at any opportunity, they will proceed to cross the friend line and showcase their sexual intentions, which they harbour in secret from the start. Please don't believe that they "just started" liking you. Men know instantly if they're attracted to you from the jump or not. Remember that in their pursuit of their female friend, many of them have no problems being inappropriate, immoral and unfaithful to partners that they keep secret and never talk about.
Please leave your comments below on what you think and mention if you've had your own situations with male friends who were quietly biding their time; hoping they could get you to be more than friends with them! 🙄